Buckwheat wrote:If that's the case then the father and mother are equally guilty of Murder.
Yes, that is a true statement provided that the father facilitates in any way the enabling of the abortion. That being said if the wife makes the decision alone without the father having knowledge of the pregancy or having knowledge without his consent then it is her fault alone to bare. Obviously the father should make every attempt to preserve the life of his daughter\son.
I am firm on my stance regarding abortion for very personal reasons and will not even consider a woman whom I have any inkling would move to murder my own children. Adittionally, I both know and understand that there are a few people on this board that have gone through this process and have killed their children.
Whatever your reasons are, they're a private matter and whether you believe it was the right decision or not, the situation was a very grave matter. I hope each of you have had the reasoning to stop any further acts that would endanger your children and if necessary to find the appropriate council to help you through any regrets or psychological stress that may have resulted through your action.
With all that being said, if any of you need council and don't know where to turn I am always happy to have a beer and a smoke with you.