Get your rear-end to the area for 4 or so days , canvas on your own and buy something.
My view of the residential home market is that it is going absolutely crazy in a bubble.
Sell now at the top of the market, bank your money, move to an apartment for 6-months to a year and bank your equity.
The housing market is in a big economic bubble driven by low mortgage rates. I think it will be cooling off as mortgage rates move upward over the next few months. At least, that's what I would do if the wife were in agreement.
As to your purchase, try to make it and lock in a rate ASAP!!!
(...and if you are going to be in Jacksonville for a few days, I would enjoy getting together for a herf!)