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RiverRatRuss Offline
#1 Posted:
Joined: 09-02-2022
Posts: 1,035
Divorced their Children?

These are my Grandkids that none of my Adult Kids Keep in touch with me any longer since I got remarried in 2021. (this popped up in my memory chit this morning, wife hasn't seen it yet)

https://tinyurl.com/2p8ppmuy

I reach out to them in text or phone calls, both go unanswered because I'm not a money pit any longer in their lives... I still send all my grandkids Birthday and Christmas cards with money with no reply's back. Last year Thanksgiving my wife and I sent plane tickets to my oldest for them to come up for the holiday. Daughter and kids flew up, she made arrangements to be picked up at the airport and Donna and I did not get to see them the entire 4 days they were here. After that point I wanted to Divorce my Kids, but I still want Grandpaernts rights to visit? this breaks my wifes heart because she was never able to have children of her own, she practically raised her Nephews and they are all grown (my kids ages) and off on their own now and they stay close and love their Aunt. my wife has never seen Kids act the way my spoiled brats are acting. only because before the two of us met. I was a phone call away with CA$H.. My open wallet actually stopped when I closed my business down in 2017 and was living on my retirement fixed budget and odd jobs until Donna and I met. My Wife was so excited to becoming an instant Grandma in 2021. but after the actions my kids have displayed since it hurts her more than it has me. because I've always known them as being spoiled Brats that's how their mother instilled in them.
I myself am to the point if they do not want to share in our lives while I'm still pushing mud, I damn sure don't want them coming around after I'm spittin Dirt!!!

Tough decisions running through my mind, but I'm not going to be Touchard over their actions or lack thereof!!
Stogie1020 Offline
#2 Posted:
Joined: 12-19-2019
Posts: 5,231
Man is that a tough spot to be in...

One thing that has become clear to me in life is that, at some point in other people's lives, I am not going to be able to cause any change in their behavior. THEY may change their behavor, but I am not going to be able to cause/make them change to the way I would like them to be.

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