Happy Birthday, my friend, this allows your only chance to give to me without me feeling guilt. For years it's a running joke around me and my 4 kids, that I get them something on my Bday, so when they show up on theirs, I always ask "what did you get me for your Birthday"..................... Sort of like my farewell comment "Glad you got to see me!"
See many ndn traditions required a giveaway on one's Bday , wedding, etc..............hehe
problem is, sort of like this place, you always got more in return!