I don't know the whole story here so kind of hard to give any advice if that is what you are looking for. One thing threw up a huge red flag for me. " you
both had a huge argument and
she decided to postpone the wedding". My wife tried this kind of crap a few times, The "well I will go to my mom's crap after an argument." My outlook is this, If people are to be a couple many many huge arguments will happen its going to happen, What matters in the end is if
BOTH are willing to work through the hard times. The last time my wife pulled the "I will go to my moms crap", I started packing her sh
it for her. She was like what are you doing? I replied, I am not going to live with someone and call them my wife if they are willing to bail over a disagreement, either our relationship means enough to where you are willing to give it your absolute all or piss on it and leave, and to boot once you do there is no and I mean ABSOLUTELY no coming back. I am not going to spend my life worrying every time she got pissed and would leave. I would tell her you never leave angry, something could happen to one of us that is grave leaving the other to deal with our last time speaking was a fight and that in my opinion is not fair to no one her or me. Now needless to say when we have the huge fights we just go to our perspective rooms to take a break and later in the end we both come together in the middle because we both see each other as being worth the effort no matter what to stay husband and wife. Of course love has to be there for both which I am very lucky to have.
I wish you both the best of luck. This year November the 9th will be our 19th year anniversary
The old man has still got it lmaoooo....