and after having awhile to think about things, I realize that everything that everyone has said is true. The advice will be taken, next time I get upset...I will go and do something else for awhile till I calm down and then come back and address the issues. I won't go and do something drastic, yes I'm a woman and more sensitive and emotional. Even more so during that ugh "special" time of the month (I can see all you men cringing now LOL) I just didn't appreciate being signalled out as being one of the people ruining cigars and related. I promise to be more careful where I put things and will try to remember to ask more wiser BOTLs if I'm not sure. I want to thank everyone for your support and wanting me to come back, it means a lot to me and the emails meant a lot to me as well. I have learned my lesson on not taking the low road and running away, but taking the high road and blowing people off when they act like jack donkeys! So we are offically back, but on our way to bed. We will be posting tomorrow - though Clive probably won't get to till tomorrow afternoon/evening since he has duty - but I will be around - in and out since I have domestic goddess duties to do tomorrow and friday to get ready for company this weekend! so hugs to everyone that supported me!