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Your Opinion On Women Smoking Cigars
SteveS Offline
#1 Posted:
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While women smoking cigars isn't the strange, unheard-of phenomenon it was a few years ago, it's still a bit less than common ...

Last Wednesday afternoon, I was in one of my favorite local shops and as more customers came in, I observed that the store owner and myself to be surrounded by no fewer than 5 women, each of whom was buying cigars. I could not resist initiating a conversation with these women (who did not come together ... each was there on her own) and found that each was making a purchase for herself, although one was also buying for her husband as well.

What are your opinions about women smoking cigars?? Do you like the idea, hate it or tolerate it? Do you find it to be sexy or do you think it detracts from a woman's femininity? Anyone other than myself have a wife/girlfriend who herfs a bit?

While I know this question'll get 'thread-jacked' (Slim, I love that phrase; thanks) in a hurry and in some pretty predictable directions, but I'm hoping for a bit of ACTUAL response to the question ... therefore, anyone whose response includes anything about "pink cigars" will be required to send me a cigar of my chosing
bullwinkle Offline
#2 Posted:
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I think there is nothing sexier than the right cigar with in the right woman's hands....I got my ex into cigars, and we had a blast smoking together, going to the cigar shop, etc...


On the same note, what do you guys/gals think about pipe smoking femmes?
bud451 Offline
#3 Posted:
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Nothing sexier than a woman with her bong! LOL!

Seriously, I have no problem with women smoking anything. But, I've noticed (in a few local shops) women attempting to sell me cigars with misinformation and clearly not informed on cigars. Just this weekend some very good looking sales lady told me that those, dare I say it, the "short story" look alikes were made by Fuente. I laughed at her and told her she is very mistaken. She didn't like it very much and said I was wrong and that they "were the same tobacco and tasted the same". I laughed again and walked out. To top it off, she was saying what a bargain they were at $3.95 each.

So, in short and nothing personal, but it seems some women are being brought into the cigar scene just for the visual factory and to push sales.

True women cigar smokers are few, IMHO.
Mr.Mean Offline
#4 Posted:
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Check BMW's (Barry) pick of the women at his local store.
RICKAMAVEN Offline
#5 Posted:
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i think women can drink milk, drive a car, smoke a cigar, and do a bunch of other things.
xrundog Offline
#6 Posted:
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Rick, I agree with you! We are two forward thinking fellows.
sammydaddy Offline
#7 Posted:
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I have no problem with women smoking cigars or doing anything else this world has to offer. I have to admit that when I see a woman smoking a stogie my initial reaction is that that must be an aggressive woman and to some it might be intimidating. I work with a woman who indulges and in general she is a delight, but she is very aggressive. I think my attitude comes from years of women's lib stuff, and I still say that women lost a lot to make the gains they did. I still open the door for my wife and do those little polite things I was brought up to do but I see many young people who don't know how to treat or how to be treated as a lady. I find that sad.
5augie5 Offline
#8 Posted:
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Women and cigars congers up a fond memory of my last trip to Bermuda about 5 years ago. In the capital, Hamilton is a very fine smoke shop whose name escapes me, but it's located right on the main drag. Of course, I had to stop in to shop for some Cubans. I come to find that the shop is owned and operated by two very beautiful and sexy ladies. The one that waited on me looked to be of polynesian decent, very smooth features with a dynamite body. She was wearing a top that looked like wet suit material with a zipper that ran all the way down the front. Of course she had it zipped down to just above her belly button, exposing an area that you couldn't keep your eyes off of. Needless to say, I would have bought anything from her. She was both beautiful and an experienced cigar connosier. I spent a bundle at the store (stocked up for the week) and ended up smoking an ERDM lonsdale (cuban of course!)with her in the store,and to this day, it is the finest cigar I've ever smoked.
I have a friend who got married for the second time a few years ago and honeymooned in Bermuda. I told him my story and he experienced the same thing, actually called me from the store!............So, women and cigars.....it is very possible.
donutboy2000 Offline
#9 Posted:
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Not one Monica Lewinsky comment? I am proud.
daveyg2 Offline
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Depends how hard she lips it. hehe.
bullwinkle Offline
#11 Posted:
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Sammy...holy @#$*!!! I'm not the only one that opens doors and pulls out chairs? But let's not turn this thread to an old school, new school debate...Aside from my ex, I have a very close female friend with whom I smoke cigars, though actually, she prefers to smoke a pipe as that is allowed in her place of business and cigar smoking is not..
cwilhelmi Offline
#12 Posted:
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There is nothing sexier than a fine woman smoking a cigar!! My ex was quite attractive and smoked cigars occasionaly, the kicker was that she would hold the cigar and drag from it in such a way that I almost died at the cigar bar, and she did it on purpose.
SteveS Offline
#13 Posted:
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something I failed to mention when I put the original post in this thread up was that ALL 5 of the women in that store that day were quite attractive ... one of them was a little embarrassed at first about admitting her purchases were for herself, but after she warmed up, it was a really interesting conversation ...

there IS something I don't understand yet about female herfers tho and that is what made me put up this post in the first place ... I see women pretty often in cigar stores around the Bay Area and have observed that the ratio of attractive women who are there is far higher than in the population as a whole ... I don't understand what makes that true, but I'll pretty much guarantee you that it is ... any thoughts?
maggiepond Offline
#14 Posted:
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i have no problem with it, I am ONE!!!
carmine7075 Offline
#15 Posted:
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I don't see many women smokers in my area. The local shop is owned by a woman, and she has a lot of cigar knowledge. However, she works at our location about twice a month and has mostly male sales reps. My future (very near future) wife will enjoy a cigar with me every now and then, and some of her friends will also smoke when we all get together. As far as the general popualtion goes, the bay area sounds light years away from here in the womens cigar smoking catagory. I see more women (definately not the bay area attractive types) with a lip full of dip. yeeechh lol.
eleltea Offline
#16 Posted:
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I am still not sure they should have the right to vote.
Mr.Mean Offline
#17 Posted:
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and who is letting these women out of the house? The new shop near me has two very attractive Russian women working in there, but when I'm there, all the customers have been male.
Orv Offline
#18 Posted:
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I've seen a few bull dykes smoking gars but yet to see any attractive women doing so. Only in pictures. ORV
EI Offline
#19 Posted:
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If Rosanne Barr is puffing on a Cohiba its disgusting
If Daisy Fuentes has a Montecristo between her lips,its a beautiful thing.
DUHHHHHHH
mhollowa Offline
#20 Posted:
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Posts: 517
...In Texas women swear out loud, dip snuff and spit, work as hard as any man and do anything on a dare. I have women friends who will smoke a cigar on occasion, but who are not cigar smokers. I do not know any women who smoke cigars.
E-Chick Offline
#21 Posted:
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Steve, muster up the cajones the next time you encounter women at the smoke shop and invite them over here to the good ol' boys club.



I'd love to see the few, the proud, the cigar smoking people with their jejuneness back every single woman who visits into a corner and censor them. Maybe censor isn't the correct word.



Intimidate, yes, that's it. Let the aforementioned club members just try to intimidate not only each and every female, but also any poster new or old who accidentally or lazily makes a typo...or God (can we still say God here?) forbid they mention or question anything NOT within the scope and realm of the inner sanctum. And rightly so, we should fear the wrath of the upper echelon and righteous, long standing members. Expect it.



My intentionality is greatly misinterpreted and the content subsequently quashed by the oppressing obliterators.



Steve, since we're on a friendly note, I just thought I'd thread-jack your post for my gain...I didn't think you'd mind. I would love to hear the opinion of any of the women that you meet and invite that actually show up here as to why they are drawn to it.



Personally, I would rather see a woman seductively smoking and enjoying a fine cigar than to see one chugging down a cheap brewski...that's just gross.
tailgater Offline
#22 Posted:
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Chicks with sticks is OK by me. But they still can't parrallel park...
Todog Offline
#23 Posted:
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Or push a shopping cart straight in a supermarket!
tailgater Offline
#24 Posted:
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At least in the supermarket they'll only hit other women.
jjohnson28 Offline
#25 Posted:
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You know why god gave women smaller feet don't you?.............So they can stand closer to the sink while their doin' the dishes :0).......Always gets a chuckle from the SO.LOL Not!
goldengoose7 Offline
#26 Posted:
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A woman smoking a cigar leaves me with the same reaction as a woman burping or cutting a fart in public.

Must be my age or something, but cigarsmoking is a sterotypical MALE endeavor that just like the above seem a bit too crude for the finer sex.

My better half and I have a long running joke that when I am not looking, Diane locks herself in the bathroom and lights up one of my big 54 ring jobs and sits there on the toilet puffing away while reading popular mechanics!;o)
SteveS Offline
#27 Posted:
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Part of my reason in asking was that I used to feel pretty much as you do, Goose ... I'm not sure what changed my mind or how it happened, but I've gone from your perspective to being somewhat amused by the idea to being fully accepting ... during the boom, my favorite local store used to have women's nights every Thursday and let me tell you, those were extraordinary events ... the place was absolutely packed. There're fewer cigar smokers of either sex now, but I still see a surprising number of women smoking cigars and I think that an unusually high percentage of them are quite attractive women.

You and Diane pop on by my place one of these evenings and the four of us will break out a beverage and light up some of those 54-ring cigars ... no farting will be tolerated from anyone although if you come by when my dog's gulping her dinner down, you'll be certain to hear HER belch since she is absolutely unlady-like in that regard (thankfully, she doesn't care for cigars ... I'd hate like hell to have to start buying for THREE!)
GetYourOwn Offline
#28 Posted:
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GG7 I am sure there was a time that women did not drive. Are you not glad that things change over time? How else would she get to work and pick up your groceries? E-Chicks comments(attempts at humor) were a lot better than these lame ones.
My wife will taste cigars for me because I cant get any subtle tastes from cigars.
goldengoose7 Offline
#29 Posted:
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Hey Steve! Thanks for the invite! that sounds like fun!

Don't get me wrong! Diane can burp and fart as well or better than I can, but she doesn't do it in mixed company. ;o) as for cigars, unfortunately, her association with them was tainted by a step grandfather who she could not stand who smoked about 10 of them a day. Just as I have a positive association with the smell of a cigar from my old man who I love to death, Diane still associates the smell with an overbearing SOB.

Smells are like that. Nothing conjurs up memories and emotions as well as aromas. My girl doesn't drink or smoke and I seriously doubt she would ever take a drag off a stogie, but she is still a lot of fun at parties! :o)
calavera Offline
#30 Posted:
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My wife will occasionally take a puff off of one of my cigars, and I love it when she does. However, she will not smoke one on her own. In my area, women cigar smokers are extremely rare. Even during the boom, I don't think that I ever saw a woman smoke a cigar here (not that I am everywhere and see everything, but I did manage to get out and about a lot). If a woman wants to smoke a cigar, I think that the same rules apply to her as to anyone else: brush your teeth or use some listerine before you try to kiss someone.
puskarich Offline
#31 Posted:
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My girlfriend smokes cigars with me. She isnt into it as much as I am, but it is fun to smoke with her. There is a cigar shop in our local mall. There are chairs and tables to sit and smoke. It is funny to see the glances she gets when she lights up a gar. I think it is great.
RICKAMAVEN Offline
#32 Posted:
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puskarich

smoke in a mall? you don't live in california. where is smoking allowed in a mall?
Cigarick Offline
#33 Posted:
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You can legally smoke in cigar shops in California.
Stickbow Offline
#34 Posted:
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I am all for women smoking anything they want. I think it's very sexy. I would be more than willing to give a women some sugestions on waht to smoke..
hoagie55 Offline
#35 Posted:
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My wife smokes cigars with me, but only small ones like cigarillos and piquinas (sorry for the bad spelling). She loves it when I smoke my pipe, but isn't up to trying that yet :-).

We go out on the back porch to smoke, go to cigar tastings at the local shop, and every once in awhle we go out to a bar or pool hall. I love having her there with me to share the experience of a good cigar. Initially, she took it up to spend time with me but now she likes it. I have to keep a stash of Upmans, Don Diegos, and now HDM cigarillos in the humidor just for her.
dkademujohn Offline
#36 Posted:
Joined: 12-27-2001
Posts: 28
All

I had to join in...as a female cigar smoker. I agree with some, I originally equated cigar smoking with men and I've always enjoyed the smell of a good cigar. My personal journey began when I negotiated a deal with my lawyer that included a box of his favorite cigars...he said, "Do you smoke?"...and so the journey began. Since then I have made a point to educate myself on cigars for MY enjoyment. The cigar shop I frequent has helped with that education. Now when I travel, I make a point to find an establishment in the area...and most are A) surprised I'm buying for myself and B) surprised that I can pick a good cigar...all by myself! In addition, I met one of the guys here on the forum, and his initial reaction was one of surprise...said I didn't look like I smoked cigars. Since then we have traded and had lunch over some good cigars and cognac.

All that to say...there's alot of when out there that are just trying to pick up guys...but I will caviat that with there are probably just as many who enjoy a fine cigar and good company! I have been fortunate to experience both!

AJ
ken9810 Offline
#37 Posted:
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It's a good idea.They talk less when their mouths are full.
lifesacatch22 Offline
#38 Posted:
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I personaly think that a woman smoking a cigar is very sexy. My girlfriend will smoke with me occasionaly, though i don't think she is really a cigar smoker. One thing I have been very surprised about is the amount of interest expressed by females about the cigar club where i go to school. When we created it we assumed that it would just be a few guys sitting arround, but we've found that a lot of women are very interested as well, it's been a very plesant surprise, that has helped membership increase greatly from males, and from the males i've talked to it's a pretty strong concencus that women smoking cigars is a great thing.
cccbus Offline
#39 Posted:
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I have 2 female friends that I work with who smoke cigars. And we get together once in a while and smoke and talk and have a good time. To me ist just friends liting up and having fun. And yes both of these ladies are very attractive and one is married to a Navy Seal and the other is dating One of my Cigar smoking buddies. We all enjoy getting together and lighting up. Can't wait till the next time
bustabust359 Offline
#40 Posted:
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A woman can do whatever she wants, just like a man. It's all about having fun. And hell yeah it's sexy to see a woman smoke....it's sexy to see a woman do almost anything she has fun doing.
BeatDragon Offline
#41 Posted:
Joined: 02-28-2003
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My woman and I herf almost every night. Its a wonderful thing and sexy as hell I might add. Especially with those big ring guages! (she'd rather smoke panatellas, damn it!)
Nothin like standing on the porch with a beautiful woman looking at the South Bay foothills listening to the coyotes and enjoying a touch of bourbon and fine hand rolled cigars. Ill be out there tonight with my CAO Brazillia and her with her 5 Vegas panetella. Unless she dips into my CAO or Excalibur stash...But its all good. DAMN I love her!
jd1 Offline
#42 Posted:
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Actually, I've not seen or been in the presence of another woman smoking a cigar. I think I would enjoy it and would hope more women would toss the cigarettes and grab a stogie.

Personally, I guess I'm just a "horned" toad that way, I find it incredibly sexy. Hey, that's just me. And that's all I have to say 'bout that.
SteveS Offline
#43 Posted:
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BeatDragon ...

When you say South Bay foothills, am I to infer you live in Santa Clara County, CA ??
rjdc Offline
#44 Posted:
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Let them smoke cigars, don't let them bid. Offer them whatever they want, and get it for them. Then they'll come over.

I don't care if they hold it in their mouth or their hand. heh heh! Had to let some of my pigness out.
titlerep1 Offline
#45 Posted:
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Posts: 114
Steve,

I don't mean to burst your bubble about those women you met in the store however; I have heard that night clubs often have something called "cigar night" which I believe means that it's Lesbian night at the club.

So, these attractive women you saw may have been there at the same time for a reason. I mean, if you were a lesbian going to "cigar night" the first place you would go is to a cigar shop for supplies I would think. My guess is there aren't that many around and they have to get their cigars somewhere.

hmmmmmm....food for thought?
BeatDragon Offline
#46 Posted:
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Steve S,

Yep, South San Jose, Ca
puskarich Offline
#47 Posted:
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Rickmaven,

The mall is in Parkersburg, WV. Nice little cigar shop.

Cant say much about California. Was there last June and went to a cigar shop in San Fran. The owner allowed us to smoke in the shop. He mentioned that the law does not apply to establishments where all the employees are owners. Dont know how true this is, but I want going to argue. Sounds like a funky loophole to me.
E-Chick Offline
#48 Posted:
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Charles (titlerep1), I really am a lesbo...I thought you had me figured out...
xibbumbero Offline
#49 Posted:
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What a coincidence E-Chick,I'm a lesbo in a man's body. :) X
E-Chick Offline
#50 Posted:
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You wanna bump boxes?
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