Bob ... there'll be more who see only her blessing to buy the box of PAMs and don't see the monster ... they just can't see it from your perspective ... but, I do.
You have my sympathy ... drop a note if (make that WHEN) you need a little support down the line, OK ... this is a road I've started down a little more than a year ago and while I can't shield you from every bump, at least I can be there for you ...