steve, beyder28 seems like a cool guy to me. he knows how to f**k around and have some fun with people who are probably never going to meet him or his girl in person. it's like getting a tattoo on a private part of your body by a toothless guy; why be shy about it, he's never going to run into you at church or something.
p.s. beyder28, i would like you to be my next childs godfather. please bring your girlfriend...roflmao