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Ray is coming to South Jersey tomorrow for a shooting competition. Going to be 15 to 20 C-bidders getting together to herf in his honor. I invited Fuzz to join us, but he made it personal between him and I. I'm going to have a nice 5ver with his name on it, in case he shows. Dirty Rat, T-52, CAO Vision, one of my rare Diablos and a Tat Nobles. So, anyone thinks he will show?

Do it.........

Robert knows were all well meaning azzhats.....

Now look what I've done :(

... from the insipid poster nobody seems to know who never has anything to say, but criticisms of others and who never reveals any part of himself (real or otherwise)...

Like I said Robert, I'm sure things would go fine I know how to handle myself. I honestly don't have any interest, at all, with herfing with a few people here, others no problem. Someone who starts a thread like this, for example, is the former. People who can't handle disagreements like adults, same thing, potts and a few others are examples of that.

I wouldn't avoid going somewhere I was planning on going if anyone here was going to be there, but I am not going to go out of my way, in this case 3 hour round trip, to meet people and hang out with people like the one being discussed here.

Being concerned how you and DMV would get along, though a valid concern, is hardly the same as being taunted by having multiple threads started about you in an attempt to mock and insult, constantly, like 8 year olds.

Bundt Cakes are better..

And the winner is an answer that I did not think to list.

"No, he will feign insult and insult and belittle me in retaliation"

Fuzz, If anyone here is full of themselves, it's you. Do you actually find my little jabs so insulting? Bull****! Just a convenient excuse. You can't take a little bit of what you dish out here on a daily basis without whining? I thought that maybe, just maybe in real life you wouldn't be the ignorant butt hole with a superiority/victim complex that you like to portray yourself as on these boards. That if some of the other members that I regularly herf with actually got to share a smoke with you, that they wouldn’t make fun of you the way they do. Guess I was wrong. Well, at least everything's back to normal.

Dang, I’m going to enjoy that Rat tomorrow night. Think I'll follow it up with an Anarchy.

I don't bake.

Enjoy.

Look at you though playing the I'm so nice, look at me, I invited Fuzz character here. You want to see BS? Here's some bs.

"So, I guess you're not joining us at the Knokmdwn herf. Understandable, as it's one thing to be a big shot from behind a keyboard, but to actually meet with those who don't think like you do, and maybe find out that they are just normal, everyday folk, and not (gasp) a bunch of wing nuts, may be a little out of your comfort zone. Dang, and I was really looking forward to some Snickerdoodles, HAAAAA!"

'ignorant butt hole with a superiority/victim complex'
'dumb arse'
'frack’n stupid'

I'm not playing a victim, I'm avoiding a ****** who can't handle disagreements without acting like a stupid child.

Dish out? When have I called you any thing like the things you called me? I'll answer that, never. So you are a liar.

And you wanted to stop people from 'making fun of me'? wtf? First, for you to think that would be a goal of mine is weird, secondly, bs. Everytime you brought it up you said something to the effect, 'so you can see we are not all backward rednecks' or something similar. It was all about you.

So yeah, back to normal, as if it ever wasn't.

The family history is interesting. But had you just said the drive and the company aren't really that appealing instead of insultig I'd respect your offer decline a bit more.

I don't have ANY problems.

Rfenst,

what the heck are you doing awake!?

Just got home from Europe so I'm all jacked up on time zones and jet lag.

Robert, its my hope that through the misconception that we were able to become better friends. Friends aren't going to always agree and some of my closest ones have told me when I'm wrong.

Not meeting up with guys at a herf from here is just crazy.

The stories, the camaraderie, the hospitality...it's numbing and intoxicating...it's a very special part of the WWW that we all share here. If you cannot meet up with others in real life then it's that person that is really missing out. I try to meet up with all the BOTL/SOTL's that come to the Tampa Bay area and show them Ybor City. Have a good time and unwind.

It's been my understanding that each and every BOTL/SOTL that I've met from here is personality PLUS. After years of reading posts here by certain people you can develop a "cyber personality" and you can make a judgement on character. When you meet up with individuals in person it all gels and you get the PLUS factor. I've NEVER met anyone that's a wallflower or so dainty they'd faint meeting each other at a herf. If anything it's like a retirement party...a bunch of people that know each other and have laughed and cried with each other. Shared good times and bad times and are in the same room able to see the wrinkles, laugh lines and smirks. I hope through that that when they read a post of mine they can see the giggling going on.

No, it's a true travesty to miss out when there's a herf in your area. I know life happens and that sometimes you can't make it but to publicly state "No" or "I wouldn't go now because I don't like the cigars you pass out"...that's wrong and is a clear misuse of this site and the togetherness we all share here. Not only that, it only helps foster the connotations others hold about you too if you can't show your face in public...with others...with a cigar or 3...maybe a beer and share a meal.

...and besides, as long as you buy your own drinks and never let them leave your sight, the odds of winding up in a bathtub packed in ice in a seedy hotel with a scar where your kidney once was is slim to nil.

Agree with ya, bud. I've personally had the privilege of sharing smokes with 40 - 50 folks from here, maybe even more. Blessed to have a local group of a dozen or more members that I herf with at least once a month. Some weekly, some a few times a week. Many have been to my home on numerous occasions. Met and smoked with others at the last 2 C-Fests, and even more at Ramstock and Delarob’s yearly herf. There hasn’t been a single one that wasn’t worth meeting and enjoying a smoke with. Heck, even Anthony (05busa) is a great dude in real life.

I can't afford a "cyber personality" as too many here would cry "bull****". When others refuse to associate in person with fellow members, it makes one wonder what they are trying to hide.

Either that or they don't want to. Get over it before it gets weird. er

Agreed. I had someone accuse me of pretending to be something the other day. I thought "wow... pretend to be something on a fairly non importent board? For what purpose? Weird."

I've seen this place really suck some people in (become WAY too important). I'm actually really worried about what xbox does to my son. It's like a drug. Everything else bebcomes non important. His obsession with the xbox reminds me of mine with the vajayjay when I was his age. Except he actually gets to play with the xbox and I was too much of a geek to reach the holy grail. But its the journey and I'm no longer bitter mostly.

I don't take it that seriously in here and at times that has pissed some off. I respect most in here but its just not that important. The folks I have met have been really cool. Ya meet em or you don't.

That said, I probably wouldn't go to a herf just to prove I could get along with folks that are dickish to me or I was a ****** to. And not going wouldn't mean I had something to hide or some other stupid BS. Meh. I'm there or I'm not. But a thread like this wouldn't entice me. A herf is for fun, not to prove something.

done similar and more with the xbox

SHEESH! It was a pink Teddy with ruby sequinns and it was South Dakota!

Men with CRS! Geezz TW!

Don't believe it! I herfed with you once and all I have to show for it is a scar and a French flag.