dpnewell wrote:First, the New Testament tells a man that he is to love his wife as himself, and willingly sacrifice and even to die for her. No man who follows this command would ever think of forcing himself on his wife. Husbands and wives are to love and respect each other. Forced sex is neither love nor respect. Man in his religion may have twisted Biblical principals in order to lord over and rule his wife, but that is sin, no matter what he claims.
You can call it a sin.
Others can interpret it differently. This isn't a theological argument, and one of the reasons I firmly believe religion shouldn't be involved in law. The final arbiter of any "sin" is conveniently absent. Which leads us to the second point...
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Second, those Old Testament passages are a record of history. Nothing is white washed. All the dirty laundry and sin is recorded for all to see. Just because leaders who where suppose to represent God to the people may have given such horrid orders, does not mean it was condoned by God.
In at least one passage it was actually instructed by god.
"But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder. You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you."
"When you go out to war against your enemies and the LORD, your God, delivers them into your hand, so that you take captives, if you see a comely woman among the captives and become so enamored of her that you wish to have her as wife, you may take her home to your house. "
"Lo, a day shall come for the Lord when the spoils shall be divided in your midst. And I will gather all the nations against Jerusalem for battle: the city shall be taken, houses plundered, women ravished; half of the city shall go into exile, but the rest of the people shall not be removed from the city"
These seem like instructions to me....