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banderl Offline
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http://news.yahoo.com/homophobic-peo...121032115.html



Homophobic People Often Have Psychological Issues
LiveScience.com By Stephanie Pappas

Homophobic attitudes may say a lot about the person who holds them, new research suggests.


A new study of university students in Italy revealed that people who have strongly negative views of gay people also have higher levels of psychoticism and inappropriate coping mechanisms than those who are accepting of homosexuality.

This doesn't mean that homophobic people are psychotic; rather, psychoticism is a personality trait marked by hostility, anger and aggression toward others. But the study does suggest that people who cling to homophobic views have some psychological issues, said lead researcher Emmanuele Jannini, an endocrinologist and medical sexologist at the University of Rome Tor Vergata.

"The study is opening a new research avenue, where the real disease to study is homophobia," Jannini told Live Science. [7 Thoughts That Are Bad for You]

The psychology of homophobia

Earlier research has found homophobia to be a complex subject, with some studies suggesting that people with visceral negative reactions to gays and lesbians often harbor same-sex desires themselves. Other studies, though, contest that idea, and suggest that homophobic people are truly averse to same-sex attraction. Other factors such as religiosity, sensitivity to disgust, hypermasculinity and misogyny seem to play a role in anti-gay beliefs, Jannini and his colleagues wrote in an article published Sept. 8 in The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

But no one had ever looked at the mental health or psychopathology of homophobic people. In the new study, the researchers asked 551 Italian university students, ranging in age from 18 to 30, to fill out questionnaires on their levels of homophobia as well as their psychopathology, including levels of depression, anxiety and psychoticism. The homophobia scale required participants to rate how strongly they agreed or disagreed (on a 5-point scale) with 25 statements, such as: Gay people make me nervous; I think homosexual people should not work with children; I tease and make jokes about gay people; and It does not matter to me whether my friends are gay or straight.

The students also answered questions about their attachment style, which categorizes how people approach relationships. The "healthy" attachment style is known as secure attachment, in which people feel comfortable getting close to others and having others get close to them. People who are insecurely attached, on the other hand, might avoid intimacy, become too clingy or desire closeness but feel uncomfortable trusting others.

Finally, the students answered questions about their coping strategies — defense mechanisms people use when they face unpleasant or scary situations. Defense mechanisms can be healthy ("mature") or unhealthy ("immature"). A mature defense, for example, might include regulating one's emotions and not depending on others for validation. Immature defense mechanisms might include impulsive actions, passive aggression or denial of a problem.

Homophobia and anger

Overall, the better the mental health of the person (based on the responses to the questionnaire), the less likely he or she was to be homophobic, the researchers found. People with "fearful-avoidant" attachment styles, who tend to feel uncomfortable in close relationships with others, were significantly more homophobic than those who were secure with close relationships. The researchers also found that people with higher levels of immature defense mechanisms were more homophobic than those with mature defense mechanisms.

High levels of hostility and anger, measured as psychoticism, were also linked to homophobia, the researchers found.

But other mental health issues had the opposite association: Depression and neurotic defense mechanisms (like hypochondria or repression) were both linked with lower levels of homophobia.

The findings position homophobia as a trait more often seen in dysfunctional personalities, but personality isn't the whole story. Homophobia is a "culture-induced disease," Jannini said, so personality traits probably interplay with factors like religion and conservative values. The researchers are currently expanding the study to students in Albania, Jannini said. They're also studying how the fear of not being "man enough" might influence homophobic attitudes.

bgz Offline
#2 Posted:
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That was a pretty long read (needless to say, I didn't read it all).

Anyway, I happen to love hot lesbians, but not the butch ones. Does that mean I only have partial psychological issues?

Don't get me wrong, if I saw two lesbians going at it on the street, I would probably find it entertaining whether they were butch or not.

Two dudes going at it on the street however... would probably gross me out, but I don't see myself throwing rocks at them or anything.

What's your analysis doc, am I ok, or do I need meds?
ZRX1200 Offline
#3 Posted:
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When I think about the Pink Mafia, accepting happy people sure is the first thing I think about.
banderl Offline
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I have no use for phags, other than hot lesbians (not that they really exist), but I don't obsess about them like some people do.
bgz Offline
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banderl wrote:
I have no use for phags, other than hot lesbians (not that they really exist), but I don't obsess about them like some people do.


They exist on the internets, Google is your friend.

You can buy them to come perform for you too, but you gotta watch the bait n switch.

YMMV
mikey1597 Offline
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Ya know, if I like a person, I like a person. Theres this misconception that if a person loves a person of the same sex that they are bad people, or there's something wrong with them, or some other stupid reason to be against what they believe..... Some of my best friends love the people they love, that's it, they're people that have found the person they want to be with, thats all.


I'm not saying I'm not prejudice, I'm am, I don't like lazy people, liars, cheats, thieves, bigots,..... you get the picture.



I use to work with the biggest homophobe in the world and he missed knowing some of the neatest people because of it, his loss.
Gene363 Offline
#7 Posted:
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Haters gonna hate, they make a lot of statements that begin with "all" e.g.:

All liberals

All conservatives

All gays

All Christians

All muslims

etc
Gene363 Offline
#8 Posted:
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banderl wrote:
I have no use for phags, other than hot lesbians (not that they really exist), but I don't obsess about them like some people do.


Oh, but they do, and this is no fairy tail, well it sort of is, but it isn't BS. I know one with a gorgeous face, coal black hair and beautiful blue eyes. She dresses to impress. She likes little black skirts, heels, push bras and frilly blouses. She has zero interest in men, she just likes girls and giggles when men fawn over her. A good friend dated her when her long term companion left for a while.
Brewha Offline
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Gene363 wrote:
Haters gonna hate, they make a lot of statements that begin with "all" e.g.:

All liberals

All conservatives

All gays

All Christians

All muslims

etc

Spot on, that.

And to the op, the maladjusted often have their confusion and frustration mature into hatred- for whomever is different.

You can tell a lot about a person by what they allow themselves to hate......
frankj1 Offline
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Brewha wrote:
Spot on, that.

And to the op, the maladjusted often have their confusion and frustration mature into hatred- for whomever is different.

You can tell a lot about a person by what they allow themselves to hate......

"behind every fear is a wish"
jetblasted Offline
#11 Posted:
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Eric Rudolph really hated gay-homos . . .

But, he hated abortion more.
Gene363 Offline
#12 Posted:
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jetblasted wrote:
Eric Rudolph really hated gay-homos . . .

But, he hated abortion more.


Almost as much as the FBI hated Richard Jewell, well until they admitted they were dead wrong.

Eric Rudolph should join Boston Marathon sh|t bag number 1 and soon, sh|t bag number 2.
tailgater Offline
#13 Posted:
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I think the OP has a phobia towards homophobes...
danmdevries Offline
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mikey1597 wrote:
Ya know, if I like a person, I like a person. Theres this misconception that if a person loves a person of the same sex that they are bad people, or there's something wrong with them, or some other stupid reason to be against what they believe..... Some of my best friends love the people they love, that's it, they're people that have found the person they want to be with, thats all.


I'm not saying I'm not prejudice, I'm am, I don't like lazy people, liars, cheats, thieves, bigots,..... you get the picture.



I use to work with the biggest homophobe in the world and he missed knowing some of the neatest people because of it, his loss.


Beer

Ain't got a problem with any group of people save for the ones that find it their business to hate others for whatever reason it may be.

Bottom line universal ideology is dont be an asswhole. Achieve that and others that subscribe to the universal ideology, whichever path they choose to attain that goal, shall not be an asswhole back at you.

On topic:

I'm mildly uncomfortable around homosexuals. I dont understand it, but whatever. I'm not part of their group. I also dont understand bird watchers, mountain climbers, painters, bodybuilders, or sailboats. Everyone has their thing, and as long as you're not an asswhole, we cool. I don't get it, but you probably dont understand the things I do either.
cacman Offline
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Give me a break! Is there ANYTHING that can't be related psychological issues???
I like to arrange cigars in my humi in the same direction with all the bands facing up. Guess I have OCD and psychological issues too! Who's got Ritalin and Xanaz?
Phffft!
danmdevries Offline
#16 Posted:
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Cacman, sounds like you could use some reeducation through hard labor.

Or high priced pharmaceuticals.

Your choice.
bgz Offline
#17 Posted:
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cacman wrote:
Give me a break! Is there ANYTHING that can't be related psychological issues???
I like to arrange cigars in my humi in the same direction with all the bands facing up. Guess I have OCD and psychological issues too! Who's got Ritalin and Xanaz?
Phffft!


Hey, I guess I got OCD too!

(except for a couple yard gar boxes, I just chuck 'em in there).
tamapatom Offline
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cacman wrote:
Give me a break! Is there ANYTHING that can't be related psychological issues???
I like to arrange cigars in my humi in the same direction with all the bands facing up. Guess I have OCD and psychological issues too! Who's got Ritalin and Xanaz?
Phffft!

It's good rotate.....do you turn them upside down all together? You can probably rotate labels so they face up.
cacman Offline
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danmdevries wrote:
Cacman, sounds like you could use some reeducation through hard labor.

Or high priced pharmaceuticals.

Your choice.

Indication of your age noobster.

And validity of the article posted.

Phffft!
cacman Offline
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tamapatom wrote:
It's good rotate.....do you turn them upside down all together? You can probably rotate labels so they face up.

Ummm... yes. Is there any other way to keep track or your rotation every few months? 1st & 3rd Quarters are bands up. 2nd & 4th Quarters are band down. Depends on if they are box-pressed too... but won't get into that LOL.
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cacman wrote:
Give me a break! Is there ANYTHING that can't be related psychological issues???
I like to arrange cigars in my humi in the same direction with all the bands facing up. Guess I have OCD and psychological issues too! Who's got Ritalin and Xanaz?
Phffft!



I think your particular problem would be classified as anal. :)
cacman Offline
#22 Posted:
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tonygraz wrote:
I think your particular problem would be classified as anal. :)

Well I would rather be considered an azz than be on high-priced pharmaceuticals in order to accept a lifestyle I don't agree with - as danmdevries suggests. It's typical though. Don't like the way you feel - here's a pill that will fix that.

Phffft!
Brewha Offline
#23 Posted:
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I wonder if Xena was on pharmaceuticals…..
victor809 Offline
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cacman wrote:
Well I would rather be considered an azz than be on high-priced pharmaceuticals in order to accept a lifestyle I don't agree with - as danmdevries suggests. It's typical though. Don't like the way you feel - here's a pill that will fix that.

Phffft!


I'm pretty sure the pharmaceuticals are to treat the other mental disorders, which are hinted at by your inability to accept lifestyles you don't agree with.


.... just trying to keep you on track here.
Gene363 Offline
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Looks like the OP is being formed into a hammer to bludgeon anyone that doesn't accept and embrace the gays. Ironic that those folks typically see themselves as open and accepting.
bgz Offline
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cacman wrote:
Well I would rather be considered an azz than be on high-priced pharmaceuticals in order to accept a lifestyle I don't agree with - as danmdevries suggests. It's typical though. Don't like the way you feel - here's a pill that will fix that.

Phffft!


So what you are saying is pharmaceutical companies are trying to force pills down peoples throats to entice them to suck a Richard?

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Gene363 wrote:
Looks like the OP is being formed into a hammer to bludgeon anyone that doesn't accept and embrace the gays. Ironic that those folks typically see themselves as open and accepting.


The gays said they will openly accept you despite your psychological issues.
ZRX1200 Offline
#28 Posted:
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You're their spokesperson now?
bgz Offline
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ZRX1200 wrote:
You're their spokesperson now?


Stomping bums with rainbow boots since 2002.
Brewha Offline
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Gene363 wrote:
Looks like the OP is being formed into a hammer to bludgeon anyone that doesn't accept and embrace the gays. Ironic that those folks typically see themselves as open and accepting.

"The Homophobic Hammer"?
Sounds like a bad movie about a KKK lawyer.....
victor809 Offline
#31 Posted:
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Z, there was a memo... Everyone else got it.
tailgater Offline
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victor809 wrote:
The gays said they will openly accept you despite your psychological issues.


Some would say In Light Of.

Gene363 Offline
#33 Posted:
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tailgater wrote:
Some would say In Light Of.



Rimshot!
victor809 Offline
#34 Posted:
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Gene363 wrote:
Rimjob!


Now THAT'S the spirit!
ZRX1200 Offline
#35 Posted:
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Instead of a secret handshake do you guys "Rudder" or "dock"
Brewha Offline
#36 Posted:
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I’m thinking their more the “rusty trombone” type….
banderl Offline
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bgz wrote:
Stomping bums with rainbow boots since 2002.



LOL
victor809 Offline
#38 Posted:
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bgz wrote:
Stomping bums with rainbow boots since 2002.


Is this related to giving someone a footjob?

...I remember a girl who used to get off on that...
DrafterX Offline
#39 Posted:
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you must have little bitty feet... or... nevermind.. Not talking Not talking Not talking
bgz Offline
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DrafterX wrote:
you must have little bitty feet... or... nevermind.. Not talking Not talking Not talking


I think drafter has a thing for stumps.
bgz Offline
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victor809 wrote:
Is this related to giving someone a footjob?

...I remember a girl who used to get off on that...


Heel or toe?
danmdevries Offline
#42 Posted:
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Footing? Like a **** punt?

Probably a pill for that too.
victor809 Offline
#43 Posted:
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Toes...

She was amusing. Also liked alleyways and public events.... And a host of other stuff.
bgz Offline
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victor809 wrote:
Toes...

She was amusing. Also liked alleyways and public events.... And a host of other stuff.


Sounds like a fun young lady. I miss the crazy ones. Had one that got off grinding my forearm one time, good times.
dstieger Offline
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bgz wrote:
Sounds like a fun young lady. I miss the crazy ones. Had one that got off grinding my forearm one time, good times.



Even great times...until they aren't...never met a crazy that was always good crazy
bgz Offline
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dstieger wrote:
Even great times...until they aren't...never met a crazy that was always good crazy


So true.
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