Ok I Will add two posts to this one: How it should be done, and how I feel Now that it is too Late!!! I got this off of "Quiet time Miscellany"WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE FEEL SPECIAL
-Have good conversation when you'd rather read the paper.
-Give her a back rub with no expectations of lovemaking.
-Buy and plant a rose bush as a surprise.
-Keep your home repaired and in good order.
-Hold her hand when you lead the family in prayer.
-Ask her input before making decisions.
-Hold her tenderly when she cries and tell her it's okay.
-Ask her out and plan the complete date yourself.
-Shave on your day off.
-Tell her she will always be beautiful when she worries
about getting older.
TOGETHERNESS
When husbands focus only on their interests and wives focus only on their interests,
the bonds of marriage break. Building togetherness in each of the following areas
will strengthen your marriage and increase your love.
-Emotional togetherness-being tuned into each other's feelings.
-Intellectual togetherness-sharing thoughts, ideas, opinions, and beliefs.
-Aesthetic togetherness-enjoying the beauty and artistry of life.
-Recreational togetherness-having fun and excitement as a couple.
-Work togetherness-doing common, everyday tasks and chores as a team.
-Crisis togetherness-leaning on each other when times are hard;
-Sexual togetherness-bonding through physical closeness.
-Spiritual togetherness-drawing closer to God and encouraging each other's faith.
-Dr. Steve Stephens
