SLIM/ROOKIE: Everyone else can quit reading at this point, so do yourself a favor...
Slimboli, opps, my bad, didn't realize this was actually a boys locker room! Thanks for finally pointing it out to me.
I did announce that I was in the (cigarbid) room seeking cigar info and that I wasn't a feminist so you wouldn't need to disrupt your boy's club mentality and watch your words - from the beginning...I know that most men are gentlemen and would anyway, but I truly never meant for any censorship to take place. I say what comes to mind, and unfortunately for some of you, you can't handle it and don't like to have fun with me.
And furthermore, every post of mine as you put it has NOT been a sexual innuendo. Maybe the smoke is too thick around your computer for you to see clearly. I am sick of hearing about it too and want it to stop, but I don't have a problem discussing it.
As far as being a flake is concerned, YOU sir don't know me. You know characters on a BB...which 9 times out of 10 are exaggerations of the REAL people, their thoughts, their inhabitions, their world. Slim, I thought you of all people would be aware of that. Of course we all know that you are the 10th one that wears his heart and soul on his sleeve (I don't mean that in a bad way. You are able to stand up for what is important to you and CB obviously is your baby.), but do you think that most other posters here are completely accurate or that they would do exactly as they post?
I mean by that, just reread some of the playful things that have been said here by some (other than me of course).
For you to call me a flake or otherwise over my real feelings being hurt, wanting to leave this site, and then truly missing some of you and even numerous emails for me to return (some from several lurkers who've said that they've given up and won't post specifically because of you Slim - honest), that I in fact chose to come back...is just plain stupid from you. When will it end from you? You need to be honest with yourself and ask WHY you even care?
I do enjoy your knowledge, but like I've said before not your humor or lack thereof IMO. You may very well be hysterical in person, but I don't read you that way. I don't get you and vice versa. We don't even need to get along. Just play nice. Just because we're bi-polar opposites doesn't mean I'll call you out and intimidate you in this forum. I'm a person that laughs easily and finds humor in the remotest of things. I apologize that you're annoyed by the fact that my sense of humor conflicts with yours and a handful of others. That's life. Maybe that's the difference of a man in his 50's and a woman in her 30's...a generational thing...wait Rookie is not in his 50's. Damn, that blows that theory. Let's just say we are all wired differently. Man, I thought we'd buried that hatchet a LONG time ago...
Slim, I don't have a problem with you or your character here, just that you can't seem to let go of the fact that my WORD isn't my word IYO on a silly little internet forum. I'm not trading things, I'm just interjecting thoughts and culling knowledge from a source that interests me. I'm not, nor will I ever be a technical, cut & dried sort of person, so don't expect me to be. If I were trading things here, you would KNOW that I'm very trustworthy. But as you are so quick to point out, I don't smoke enough IYO to actually have things to trade. I don't plan on changing those habits either. And you STILL haven't aswered my Q re how many cigars one has to smoke to qualify to be worthy to post here. You brought my smoking habits into it, so please enlighten me.
FYI, anyone who actual knows me, Marla the person not E-Chick the BB character, will tell you that I am the most honest, upstanding person that will go to the ends of the earth for you. If by typing on my keyboard that I've been personally insulted and had enough here and then daily prodded to please come back by many because they miss and enjoy my input, that you consider me a flake, then so be it. I won't change your opinion. I'm not trying to. I know who I am and the people who matter to me know who I am. I am confident WE'LL never truly know each other or care to for that matter on either side.
And to Rookie: Just like a cop to not get what someone is trying to say and to assume that they're on drugs and paranoid...So, how do YOU like being lumped into a stereotype?
Please spare me any more of your condesending banter. Would you please back off...At least Slimboli STILL gives me cigar advice and was even willing to teach me/us some basic HTML stuff...I'll never change, it's too bad you have. I DON'T have a problem with such and such or so and so. I've kept from responding to the continual threads that just won't let it end as long as I could. I'm not the one who's started them. I toped THIS thread to show approximately when I initially posted and that I am still the same poster as I was 2 years ago since my validity as a poster/lurker has been called into play.
Someone writes and I respond...and this having to write a novel to explain myself is getting old since you ask me Q's and don't seem to get what I'm saying...so if you or Slim have further questions, accusations, or plain old **** that you'd like to say to me via real life voice...please email me and I'd be more than happy to give you my number so we can discuss this further and put it to bed. Everyone here would thank you and Slim for not inciting more response from me, right?
Best to all and let's keep it simple from now on, please...E
ps. Maggiepond is very quiet. She may have learned that as a woman here, she'd quickly be put on trial if she were to have a personality. I'm not knocking her by any means, I just know little of her. Like I said, she's very quiet and may very well have a totally different type of personality than me or you. But I'll certainly not freak out that we don't talk to each other or that she ONLY posts about cigars and not funny asides or ideas. To each her own.