Brewha wrote:Deuteronomy 22:25-29
25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die. 26 But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbor, and slayeth him, even so is this matter: 27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her. 28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; 29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
Looks like if you see a virgin you like, just rape her, and she has to marry you....
i am not sure that is condoning anything but rather a punishment for a real life scenario.
lets look at it in fullness and context, including some other passages: Exodus 22:16-17 “If a man seduces a virgin who is not betrothed and lies with her, he shall give the bride price for her and make her his wife. If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the bride price for virgins."
in other words, if you have a relationship (consensual or non consensual) outside of marriage you are required to marry her (and in the case of rape never divorce her) unless her father objects. i can only assume many loving fathers objected in the rape case.
but we have to keep in mind that in ancient Jewish culture (as is still the case in much of the world), virginity was prized and it was very hard for a non virgin to find a husband (enter the dilemma of unwed Mary carrying baby Jesus). a woman who was raped would likely be regarded by many as unmarryable (i may have just made that word up). likewise, it would be very hard for a non married woman to support herself and survive.
rape is a sin/crime that strikes a particular chord with me (on the same level as those who harm children) and there is no case where it is justified so please do not interpret anything i say as my assertion that it isnt a big deal.