al'Thor, congratulations! I had my son this weekend for the first time since the "lady" I married took him over a month ago... We're at the beginning of what will surely be an ugly divorce... It was unbelievable to have him for the weekend. He's coming up on 7 months old and I just FINALY got him to learn the Dadadada sound. He doesn't know what it means yet, but I got him to say it :-) I spent all weekend tending to his needs, like a baby bird. Feeding him, changing him, playing with him, putting him to bed, getting him up. It's funny, because when you explain it like that, it sounds like it could be considered drudgery, but it was a true joy, every minute of it, even when he would cry and I would hold him and tell him I understood and it would be alright. It's something I've waited for all of my life and I just turned 45. I can't put in to words how wonderful it is to be a father. I wish that my wife would have chosen another path, but it is what it is. But I'm going to be the best dad I can. Congratulations again, and I pray to God that your baby is healthy and that your family is blessed with this new child. May God bless…