JonR, you are ridiculous. I intentionally posted a thread without giving my take, as I wanted to see what people had to say without attacking me. But you managed, somehow, to attack me. Damn! Even my arch-nemesis DMV answered the question without addressing me! (Thanks, DMV)
OK, let me rephrase: who refused to 'return' to Iraq. By the way, 'return' and 'go' mean one and the same thing, only that 'return' in this case is more precise. Everybody else seemed to understand what I was asking.
I'm not sure what I think about this. That's why I asked.