in your local papers you will find the notices for 'FRIENDS OF XXXXXXX". (varies by city.) drink coffee and smoke cigarettes to your hearts content. learn the benefits of not bidding $7.00 to $12.00 per cigar for 5 packs of partagas. recognize the obsession that you are following to your detriment. learn the benefits of shopping all over to find them at reasonable prices. learn the pride of being clean and sober. do it soon before you lose everything, your family, your home, your job. there is pride in being clean and out from under the obsession of OB.