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OK... so I'm tired of politics and am ready for sex.... valentine's day is coming up and and I'm getting horny. So tell me what kind of valentine's gifts turn your lover on and get them horny??

my wife loves the chocolate body wrap I lick off special parts of her body and these scented massage bars. Add a box of chocolates and some roses and she start to moisten up... You?? and especially you ladies??

Bling and more bling.

DAMN and all this time I've been using my good handkerchief when a rag would have sufficed. LOL JonR

LMAO @ X and seth.

I usually use alcohol. I've had my best luck with a fifth Jack Danials. My girlfriend doesn't drink, but once I’ve finished the bottle one quick swing and the back of her head with the empty and she's all mine for at least 45 minutes!!

candy is dandy
but liquor is quicker.

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I say, Honey give me five minutes and she says, don't flatter yourself.

PO' FOLKS ROMANCE 101

well, guys, i've got about $5 to spend for valentine's day. but i've got the best wife in the world, and a heart overflowing with love for her. and it doesn't cost much to be creative...

she's getting a small box of her favorite chocolate (the $3 size of lindt's dark chocolate truffles -- guys, get these for your women!!).

i'll make the card myself on the computer and pouring out my heart in the words.

$2 gets two roses from the florist -- one red, one white.

that takes care of the basics.

i'm making her a cd of romantic music taken from what we danced to (or i tried to dance to LOL) at our wedding. if i'm able to, i'll ask her to dance in the living room to "our song" when it comes 'round.

aside from that, i'll have a bottle of champagne chilled and ready for after dinner -- the special honeymoon bottle we didn't get to drink on our wedding night because we were both totally wiped out and already drunk on love anyway. :)

i'll present her with the red rose and the lindts chocs while making my entrance for dinner; we're dining at home, but i'll be dressed up in my most dashing attire (yes, including jacket and tie; it's romance day -- suck it up! lol). and i'll also wear (just a little; don't marinate!) of the cologne i wore when i met her for the first time.

she's making my favorite meal (a ham/potato casserole we call "crack-arole" because it's so addicting). it's not the fanciest, but it is by far my favorite -- the one i'm always begging her to make.

after dinner, i will lead her to the master bathroom for a luxurious bath -- i'll have another cd of her favorite soft classical music playing and lit scented candles surrounding the tub.

the bath will feature water at the temperature she likes, a handful of bath beads and a sprinkling of rose petals (from the white rose).

after that...................... nunna ya' bizness. :)

... and if you're REALLY broke, just skip to the nunna ya' bizness part! ;)

I guess I am fortunate and unforunate deoendign on how you look at it.

My wife does not believe in Valentine's Day nor Sweetheart's Day. As a matter of fact, she hates these "made up" holidays that were made up by the card businesses to get a holiday in to make more money. So, I do no thave to worry about anyting for these days.

That aside, one of the things my wife loves the most is for me to clean the house, sweep the floors, do the dishes, laundry, etc.. That is a sure-fire way to guarantee me sex anytime I want it! OIf course, I really hate doing that, so I pick and chose my moments. Saturday will be one of those times too!

Another sure-fire way to get what you want is to fix a nice dinner for your spouse yourself, (takeout is acceptable as long as you take it out of the takeout containers, put it on a plate and make is presentable). Put a few flowers in a vase and have an enjoyable meal at home. Wind down with a little music and talk.

One of the greatest things that work for me is to buy some flowers for no reason at all. Don't do this on her birthday, Valentine's day, etc.. And do not do this regularly. Only do this ocasionally and she will be touched by it.

Warning: The tips listed above are not guaranteed to get you sex. There is no money back guarantee in life.

Matt

eh, what the hey. while i'm here i thought i'd toss out some ideas on "things to get her in the mood" (or interested in you in general at least). i'd love to see folks add to the list!

1. pay attention to her -- listen to her, and be interested in what she has to say. how? make eye contact when she's talking. ask questions and make comments about what she's saying -- but don't take over the conversation. keep it about HER.

2. touch her. a lot. don't go for the hot spots right away. caress the inside of her elbow. kiss her neck. play with her hair and/or give her a scalp massage. rub her backside. :) don't do this too hard or to softly -- go for medium.

3. surprise her -- HER way. is there something she's been on your case to do? throw out that ratty old t-shirt from 20 years ago? wear cologne? change your hairstyle? or less dramatic stuff -- fixing the squeaky door, clearing your pile of junk off the dining room table, putting your nasty socks in the hamper instead of on the floor.

has she ever said something like "i wish that just one time you would ___________" or "i'd really love it if sometime you would _____________" etc.? dig deep... remember? okay. then just do it. for her. tomorrow if not sooner!

4. don't get the roses. get something else. talk to the florist if you don't know what various flowers represent. try getting her some calla lillies or tulips. get something funky and exotic. or just get some kind of flower just because it's her favorite color. any schmuck can do the rose thing. be different.

5. be mysterious. if you've been together for a long time, or if you're just getting to know each other, mystery can go a long way towards turning up the heat. do something completely out of character for you. if you're a typical nice guy, put on some bad boy charm. are you a rough kinda guy? surprise her by being Gentleman Extraordinaire for the evening. put on the suit and tie. say "ma'am." that kind of thing. just do something different that she's not expecting -- it will lend you an air of mystery, and mystery = sexaaay!

6. fulfill a fantasy. don't know what her fantasies are? get to talking! and then get to going for it. too shy to talk about it? take 15 minutes tonight and each of you write down a fantasy of yours and then exchange them. you can talk about it after you read them, or just go for it. actions DO speak louder than words!

7. be CONFIDENT in whatever you do. i've had so many women tell me that the sexiest thing about ANY man is confidence. don't be cocky; don't be arrogant. just be confident in whatever you do. she'll pick up on it and then she'll be picking up YOU.

well, this is long enough. just wanted to kick stuff off and see what you guys (and ladies!) think are good "get the motor runnin'" gestures.

-sicilian tony

LOL (unless you ask first!)

At my house we have a shelf where we stack all of our mail that we want to keep (paid bills, bank statements, and stuff like that). The other day I was sorting through the stack looking for document for my income taxes. I found the valentines card that I gave her last year. So I handed it to her and said here's your early valentines card. We laughed, and put it back in the stack. She'll probably get that same card again next year.

Well, I better do something real quick, cause my wife bought me cigars and it's gonna be real tough to top that. LOL!
Actually, all you gotta do is send the kids to the grandmother's house and then get things real quiet in the house and then pretend you aren't interested. LOL!
After 20 years of marriage, she still gets the joke. ;)

Yo Robby: Their breasts are bigger than ours. JonR

ahhhh, robby. it's been awhile, hasn't it bud? :)

don't worry. you'll remember why next time you get a "reminder." :)

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