amen to that, though this change in sleeping pattern has made my insomnia worse lol I wouldn't change it though because I need to have that communication back and forth at least a little for peace of mind and just because I miss him so damn much. I can't imagine what wives/gf's etc went through when all they had was snail mail, I'd go insane!!! Only thing that sucks is they can't get e-cards, but I've found some places with good poems and stuff like that, also I create web pages, nothing fancy, just lame romantic stuff, but it's something that he can see. :-) ok I think it's time to get my sleepy butt to bed lol! ni ni all