KingoftheCove wrote:Grey Vans, white socks...............it's a great look!
The proper look?
Black lace ups, shined well. VERY dark grey, or black socks. Black belt with silver buckle.
White shirt, gold cuff links, handkerchief with a double pyramid pocket square..........matched to the color of your tie.
You are wearing a suit not a tux, this info is spot on.
I wore french cuffs 5 days a week for years, I love cufflinks----great for a wedding day! I would do white metal to match white belt buckle, unless you wear a gold tone watch, then go with gold cufflinks and buckle.
As to socks I am a pattern guy, find some black with grey accents or a dark grey with black accents.
Best of luck!
W