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Quiting Cigarretsssss
arbn2/505 Offline
#1 Posted:
Joined: 08-16-2002
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I am attempting to quit; and as means of getting over the hump I am smoking the cigars that come in tins....is this wise? Or should i quit kidding myself and smoke my normal alottment of cigars. I kinda feel like I am kidding myself as when i need a fix i go outside and have a few puffs of one then put it out. So far it has worked but I am interested to hear of other cigar smokers experience that have successfully quit smoking cigarretts.

On a different note; I just completed 2 trades and I am amazed at the freebies given to me...almost as much fun trading as smoking them ( and i stress almost)
xibbumbero Offline
#2 Posted:
Joined: 01-25-2002
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Arbn,Drink lotsa Tequila. After awhile you forget that you even smoked cigarettes. X
arbn2/505 Offline
#3 Posted:
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I try and stay away from Tequila since I was in the service; but if you send me some good blue agave I will give your method a try.
BMW Offline
#4 Posted:
Joined: 10-21-2000
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arbn, Been there done that. When I quit cigarettes my wife asked me if I would smoke more cigars. I gave her permision to abuse me if I started replacing cigarettes with cigars. Just remind youself that cigarettes suck, are not fun, have no redeeming flavor and cigars are a fun, relaxing, tasty experience that you can share with other peopole.

Best of Luck and hang in there

Barry
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#5 Posted:
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Just say 'not' ...
RICKAMAVEN Offline
#6 Posted:
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of all the drugs, cigarettes are the worst. even with the drug out of your system, which takes about 3 or 4 days, the desire NEVER goes completely away.

i used hypnotism and forgot about cigarettes for almost six months. i did not even know i had smoked, until one day i light one and was back to 4 packs a day instantly. my hypnotist and i tried everything but we could not penetrate the second time.

we decided the thought of quitting is something my mind could not accept, it is too threatening, and i believe it is the same for most people. we decided that i would not quit, but stop for a while.

i am still a cigarette smoker, i just haven't had one for about 18 years.

i have a cigarette in an envelope, with a note to myself, taped to the bathroom mirror. i don't remember exactly what it says, but it is something like, "you think you are smoking this because toby really pissed you off, but it's an excuse."

i hope i don't ever read the note.

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#7 Posted:
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Rick ...
Any chance that hypnotism could help change your leftist views? Hehehe
redneck1 Offline
#8 Posted:
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Hello, Maybe this will help. I gave up cigaretes three years ago. The advice I got from a tobacconist was to stay away from the small cigars. His reason was the size is too close to a cigarete and you'll just inhale it and more than likely go back. So I chewed the gum, (following the directions on the box and tape) and limited myself to one cigar per week on bowling night. That cigar was always at least a robusto in size.

Now I smoke three, maybe four cigars per week and don't even get cravings for cigaretes. Could do without the 15 to 20 lbs I gained but shouldn't die of lung cancer. Cancer of the throat will probably get me!!!!!!!!

Good luck!!
eleltea Offline
#9 Posted:
Joined: 03-03-2002
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I used smokeless tobacco (Copenhagen) in the round tins to wean myself off cigarettes. You can get weak in the knees from your first pinch of that nasty stuff. It is disgusting enough a habit that you never really want to do it, just have to for the nicotine.

One night I had a dream of digging in the tin for a pinch and there were fat slimy worms slithering around in the moist snuff. Makes the hair stand up on the back of my neck recalling it. I threw away my last can in the morning and never went back to snuff or cigarettes. That was 1975. I have always smoked cigars occasionally, but never inhaled. Average maybe one a day now.

GetYourOwn Offline
#10 Posted:
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What makes you want to smoke? The nicotine craving or the habit of going to a certain place and standing there to smoke. If it is the nicotine try the gum or patches. If it is the other you can buy a fake cigarette and just "smoke" it for 10 mins in that special place. Both methods will wean you off the habit and then you can try cigars.IMO it is best to enjoy cigars without having a craving.
Good Luck!
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#11 Posted:
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Ever try ACCUPUNCTURE ?

Guaranteed to work ....

Every time you want to light up a cigarette ... just start sticking yourself with needles until the urge subsides .....

My wife did this to me when she wanted to wean me from having sex all the time .... it worked ...
xibbumbero Offline
#12 Posted:
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Ya right,you stopped for awhile cause you almost bled to death. LMAO X
rayder1 Offline
#13 Posted:
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I quit smoking the day before I moved in with my wife and step kids 6 years ago. I went cold turkey and it worked. I used chew to replace some of the urges to smoke, but as I saw my gums start to recede, I realized that this could be worse than any other tobacco product. Now it is just the occasional cigar. The wife doesn't approve, says its bad for the kids to see me smoke cigars. She doesn't like the smell. But...I gave up a he11 of a lot of vices and behavior from my 35 years of being single to marry her. I deserve to have 1 good vice. The lure of cigarettes lasts forever though. I can go days without thinking of having a cigar, but some part of every day I think of having a cigarette. Must be a different drug.
goldengoose7 Offline
#14 Posted:
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I had my girlfiend ration them to me starting with 12
goldengoose7 Offline
#15 Posted:
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I had my girlfiend ration them to me starting with 12 a day and gradually reduced to 6 a day before I stopped.

She would hide the carton from me so I couldn't cheat. After a month of being down to 6 a day, I stopped and started using nicotine gum. Did that for about 6 weeks and stopped that. Haven't had a craving since, been off cigs for 8 months after smoking a pack a day for 21 years.
5augie5 Offline
#16 Posted:
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i quit smoking about 15 years ago, 16 years ago, 18 years ago...etc. I could never quite get over the craving for smoke, that is until I starting enjoying cigars on a regular basis. I smoke about 1 per day, sometimes more (golf) sometimes less (weather). But the urge for a cigarette vanished comletely. I smoked a cigarette about 2 years ago and hated it... goodbye little crappy white sticks, hello aged large brown ones.
sammydaddy Offline
#17 Posted:
Joined: 10-29-2001
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I quit in 1979, the day my first daughter was born. I had quit several (20 or 30) times before and this time it stuck. I have to admit to craving cigarettes (especially in certain situations) for approx ten years after quiting. Now I wouldn't touch one on a bet. As much as anything else quiting is a mind set, you have to be ready and you have to be determined. Anything else you do to help will be just that, an aid. But you will only be sucessful if you are convinced that is what you want to do.
BMW Offline
#18 Posted:
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Nail on the head samdaddy. Nothing is going to do it for you.
Barry
penzt8 Offline
#19 Posted:
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Don't look at it as quitting, look at it as progressing to the next level. Cigarettes are a crude bastardization of the noble tobacco leaf. They chop it up and add all kinds of chemicals and then wrap it in paper. Cigars are a natural product with nothing but tobacco (at least the ones most of us prefer). Cigars are smoked purely for the enjoyment. It's kind of like the relationship many of us have had with alcohol. A lot of people start drinking simply to catch a buzz but later develop a taste for a particular wine or spirit.

I use to have a fairly strong cigarette and smokeless tobacco habit. Sometimes I'd have a pinch of Skoal in my mouth while smoking a cigarette. I quit them both at the same time almost 15 years ago. My alcohol habits have gone the same route. I use to drink a lot of cheap liquor, mostly for the wonderful euforic effects and the added bonus of a headache the next day. Now I truly enjoy smoking a good cigar with a nice blended whisky like crown royal or even an occassional beer. But I seldom have more than 3 or 4 drinks in one evening.

For me, the cravings for cigarettes went away pretty quickly. I'm convinced it's because of my attitude about them. That I realized I wasn't smoking because I enjoyed them but because it was just a habit.

When was the last time you smoked a cigarette that was so good, you just couldn't wait to tell one of your smoking buddies about it?

E-Chick Offline
#20 Posted:
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I smoked cigarettes as a teen, totally addicted...at LEAST a pack a day plus a pack of clove cigarettes inbetween. I developed a horrible case of bronchitis and stopped cold turkey. Never went back, only 20 years later, I'm liking (No X, not LICKING!), cigars.



And BTW, the cancer thing with any of the vices?...I have a girlfriend who NEVER smoked a cigar or cigarette nor chewed tobacco either in her life. She was just about 30 years old, if that, and she was stricken with cancer of the mouth. Had to have 1/3 of her tongue removed (lengthwise) and some muscle and lymph nodes too along with some dreaded cancer treatments. Not an easy thing.



Fate, sometimes you just can't win! Sometimes you can...



I'm happy to say that she is cancer free after about 8 or 9 years! Whew!



YOU have to want it...be strong. Just look at the great advice and comic sidebars offered here. We're here when you need us! Keep us posted.
Slimboli Offline
#21 Posted:
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penzt8 -- not so much a habit, as an outright addiction. Sure there is habit (or a routine) that everyone who smokes them follows, e.i. after meals, after sex, when stressed, etc.) but ...

Think about it ... cigarettes are nothing more than a 'nicotine injection system', made only to get nicotine into your system. Ther are some reports that cigarette companies even 'add' nicotine to them to keep you hooked, and to hook the teenage population.

I smoked cigarettes since I was 15 years old ... and quit when I started smoking cigars. I don't miss them one bit ... and when I by a pack at the bar when I'm out drinking with my buddies, they almost make me sick. They are nasty ... once you get over the hump ...
RICKAMAVEN Offline
#22 Posted:
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Slimboli
"do you smoke after sex", he asked giving everyone a perfect straight line.
bud451 Offline
#23 Posted:
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Haven't had a cigarette since January and I was a smoker for 27 years.

It's still tough and I think about it every day. Especially when I am stressed or having a beer(which is most days...LOL!).

My main reason for quiting was the expense. I've smoked cigars for years but had to give up one, and cigars are much more of an enjoyment rather than just an addiction. It's tough, but I am trying not to smoke cigars in their place, especially since the inhale reflex is hard to break and I do inhale quite often.

Hang in there and try not to kill anyone.
aberdeen Offline
#24 Posted:
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I think a lot of cigarette smoking "addiction" comes from the personality of the person smoking. To be truly addictive, anyone who smokes cigarettes must become addicted, and that is far from the case. I smoke two to five cigarettes every day and I enjoy it and if I get sick I don't smoke at all as I don't enjoy the taste of smoke when sick. Since I was 21 I smoked cigarettes on a take it or leave it basis, never smoking more than a half pack a day and that was very rare. But during the day I like to step outside my shop once or twice for a cigarette and then in the evening have a cigar. My wife is angry about this, with crazy thoughts that our kids will grow up without a father. But nobody uses common sense with cigarettes, what is the threshold of danger? If you smoke a pack a day probably harmful, what if you smoke five a day, or two a day, or two a week? I enjoy the stimulation and taste of one or two cigarettes a day, I don't enjoy cigarettes for the need to satisfy a craving. There are beneficial effects to cigarettes, just ask a WWI or WWII vet, or Ernest Hemingway if alive.
bud451 Offline
#25 Posted:
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Interesting point Aberdeen and one in which I am seeing more and more of. I know quite a few people that only smoke cigarettes when out drinking or with people that smoke.

I am sure you'll see more and more people doing the same with the insane taxes being put on tobacco products. Unfortunately, after 27 years of addiction....it's all or none for me. I've tried it many times with no success. I've also heard that 1 to 2 cigarettes a day is enough for the addiction, the rest is habit.
Slimboli Offline
#26 Posted:
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aberdeen -- you are in denial.

Nicotine is highly addictive, and just because you only smoke a 'couple' a day doesn't mean you are not addicted.

There are reports that nicotine is more addictive than herion, but I guess that all depends on who put out the report.

Your cigar is adding nicotine (in smaller quantities if you don't inhale) to your system as well. Your body doesn't care how it gets it ... and just try quitting tobacco products completely, then tell me what you think.
aberdeen Offline
#27 Posted:
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first of all Slim, I don't want to quit tobacco, I enjoy it, and in moderation one can enjoy something without the addiction label thrown around. When I get sick I don't smoke anything for two weeks, for I get no pleasure out of it and cigars taste terrible, so I don't smoke at all then as it wouldn't be enjoyable as I said and I have no withdrawal during that time, I just spend the normal cigar time catching up on my dvd's watching with a cup of tea (I don't drink when I'm sick either or use caffeine). I don't always have a cigarette when I am not sick each day, especially if I am really busy, it's no big deal to me with cigarettes, but if I get a chance for a break, it's nice to relax to a cigarette once or twice at the shop. If I was truly addicted I would smoke when sick and everyday no matter what, but I think you are not using the term addiction as it is defined Slim, otherwise by your definition I would be addicted to half the things I consume or do. Now if anything I would say I am addicted to cigars, but again it's a personality thing not the product. I really look forward to my nightly cigar as I made it my habitual routine and a way for me to unwind and think about my day and the day ahead, it is very meditating for me, like the fanatics who will jog in the mornings no matter what the weather, addiction as well I suppose by this working definition here. I also think the dangers of cigarettes in the first place are overblown. Diet to me is every bit important if not more so than tobacco consumption.
Slimboli Offline
#28 Posted:
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You just don't get it ... do you. I still think you are in denial.

I didn't say you had to quit for good, and it makes no sense to me that you justify it by saying you don't smoke when you are sick. Most people don't ...

Go a couple of weeks or longer without tobacco products when everything is going well and you feel great, then I may believe you.

It's proven that nicotine is addictive ... to some more than others, but still addicting.
Slimboli Offline
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Besides ... the only way you could be addicticted to half the things you do or consume, is if they are considered a narcotic.



Hallmarks of addiction



University of Vermont professor John Hughes, an expert on nicotine dependence, says the scientific consensus is that "the core of the issue [over dependence] is the loss of control over use. The drug controls you -- you don't control the drug."



Specifically:




You're not able to stop using it when you decide to.

You use the drug despite clear evidence that it is harming you.

There are clear withdrawal symptoms (defined) -- including, in the case of nicotine, depressed mood, insomnia, irritability and difficulty concentrating.


According to these standards, says Hughes, who is past president of the Society for Research on Nicotine and Tobacco, "there's no doubt that nicotine produces addiction." He also cites anecdotal evidence about the strength of the compulsion for nicotine -- or tobacco smoke containing nicotine. "If you put people in a position where it's hard to get, they will go to great lengths to get cigarettes. From World War II, there are records of starving people trading food for cigarettes in concentration camps."
aberdeen Offline
#30 Posted:
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Slim you proved my point with your addiction definition. First many people choose not to smoke like when they aren't sick like me, but your quote says people can't choose if they want to use the product or not. Second you fail to consider the threshold of danger. How much cigarette smoking is dangerous? To me you are blind to the fact that having a terrible diet filled with fast food will kill a person before a cigarette or two a day will. (Greece has amongst the lowest rate of cancer in the world but among the highest rate of smokers, this isn't slam dunk slim) And again by your definition everything we use or consume is addictive. You just want to apply your definition to cigarettes but not to other behaviors. And nowhere in the definition of addiction is there the condition that it must be a narcotic. A person's personality can lead him to be addicted to just about anything, like gambling which isn't a narcotic. According to your logic, a person who smokes one cigarette in their life is addicted, for you don't allow for any margin, either all or none. I think it is illogical to lump me in the same category as a two pack a day smoker, and what if I cut back to one cigarette a week, I would still be addicted according to your reasoning. You fail to comprehend that someone can enjoy a cigarette without being addicted, that is completely alien to you for some reason, but they are enjoyable aspects to cigarettes, which appears to seem ludicrous to you, but you know there are many non smokers who think it is ludicrous to be able to enjoy a cigar and that we must all be raving addicts, otherwise why would we smoke those things?
Slimboli Offline
#31 Posted:
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There are physical addictions (narcotic) and psychological addictions (gambling) ...



Research shows that nicotine, like other addictive drugs, affects the part of the brain that produces 'feel good' chemicals (the mesolimbic system). This is the same part of the brain cocaine affects.



When you smoke, nicotine reaches the brain in about eight seconds. It then triggers the release of the same brain chemical that gives you a warm feeling when you eat chocolate or are hugged (dopamine). Your body gets used to nicotine after you've been smoking for a while, so you need more doses to get the same 'hit'. Giving up therefore becomes harder.



But what many people don't know is, it's not nicotine that makes smoking so harmful – it's all the other chemicals that you breathe in each time you take a puff.
SteveS Offline
#32 Posted:
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So, I'm a cigar smoker because I don't eat enough chocolate or get enough hugs ??? Or, do you think maybe I don't get enough hugs because I'm a cigar smoker ...
Slimboli Offline
#33 Posted:
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aberdeen -- this ought to amuse you ... LOL!

Take this little quiz and see how you do ... just for fun.
aberdeen Offline
#34 Posted:
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Posts: 741
Slim, did you create this quiz?! What a joke it is! The first time I answered honestly and the result came back moderately addicted and how cigarettes are a financial burden. Then I took it again with the mindset that I smoke one cigarette a year, and again the same result! Typical anti tobacco propaganda, just as dishonest as any tobacco executive. If there were a honest objective quiz I would like to take it though. But back to your post which agains proves my point. You mentioned the brain after time needs more doses of nicotine to feel the same satisfaction. But I have never increased the amount I smoke, in fact I am smoking less now than ever before because I am more busy. My point which I think your evidence supports is that you can enjoy the nictotine sensation and if you only enjoy it in moderation you won't get addicted. You know not everyone who tries heroin gets addicted. I admit I do enjoy the sensation from a cigarette, it is a stimulant, I also enjoy the rush of a strong cup of coffee in the morning. I also enjoy the simple act of smoking a cigarette and even the taste, as I am picky on what I smoke. If I don't have any cigarettes I won't bum one off anyone unless by some fluke they smoke Old Golds, that's the only cigarette I will smoke. When I worked at a 7-11 when I was 18 I tried all brands and it took over a year to conduct this experiment, and Old Gold was the winner, kind of like finding a number one cigar. People who are truly addicted can't go long periods without a cigarette, some smokers will light up when they are in the most miserable conditions, Larry King I read the other day was having a heart attack, but before he went into the emergency room he stayed outside a bit longer to have that cigarette, now that I would agree is addiction. Thought Slim, if you ever hurt yourself, say having a fall and breaking a leg, a cigarette will make you feel much better. This was learned in WWI, all the injured coming into the field hospitals were given cigarettes, often for the first time, and this calmed them and helped the pain, the downside is that most of our boys got addicted and when they came back all states had to repeal their prohibition laws on cigarettes as they were illegal in many states during this time. But I shouldn't be so long winded.
Slimboli Offline
#35 Posted:
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I guess you missed the humor in my telling you to take that test, "just for fun" ...


So basically, what you are saying is ... that you are some special person that seems to beat all the odds. All you have done, is learned moderation, and that's the key. Well, congratulations ... as many others aren't so lucky.

Tell that to my father-in-law who almost died last year from an abdominal aneurysm caused by arterial sclerosis, due mainly in part to smoking cigarettes since he was 15 years old. The specialist who saved his life told me, that if it weren't for peoiple who smoked, she would be out of a job, and that 90% of her patients smoke some form of tobacco product.

I've got to say, you sure know how to talk in circles, carefully weaving in and out of issues so well ... and you've convinced and justified it to yourself for so long, that you actually believe it. ...

Everything I said is true. You just admitted it ... the nicotine in cigarettes is addicting, but it's the other crap in the tobacco that causes the problems. Nothing you can say will convince me otherwise, because I live in the real world.

BTW ... I'm going to email you the HTML code for paragraph breaks ... LOL!
CJBully Offline
#36 Posted:
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news blurb/alert

http://www.msnbc.com/news/800483.asp
Slimboli Offline
#37 Posted:
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Thank you ... excellent article to drive my point home.

I think aberdeen agrees that nicotine is addicting ... and he's just trying real hard to prove that he's not ... which is fine.

Decades of sound medical research has proven to most rational human beings that inhaling tobacco products is harmful to ones health ... and moderation will just do less damage, that's all.
arbn2/505 Offline
#38 Posted:
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Posts: 102
I very much appreciate the stories and advice. I have always thought of myself as a person with sound judgement but in this I find myself lacking. I still argue with myself about quiting this habit, and am heartened to hear of others success. Thx all!!
redneck1 Offline
#39 Posted:
Joined: 11-15-2000
Posts: 813
Another thing. If you go a full year without smoking cigaretes then you've quit. There are many, many things you normally do throughout the seasons and habitually light up that you don't realise till after you give them up. For instance just stepping outside of the house or doing a little work in the garage. I also found out I went fishing most every weekend mainly to smoke. Oh your taste buds, canned beer tastes like crap now. Got to be bottled. It's hard but you can do it.
aberdeen Offline
#40 Posted:
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Slim, I think because of personal reasons you are too emotional about the subject the think about it rationally. There are many people like me, my wife, once or twice a month when she goes drinking with her friends will have one or two cigarettes, but she never smokes otherwise. There are many people slim that only smoke a small amount of cigarettes, whether it be 5 a day or 5 a month, and that is a far cry to the amount your father in law smoked.

You still have not given me an diret answer, what is the threshold here? If nicotine is truly addicting, then everyone who smokes a cigarette will become addicted and smoke more and more as you claim. But this doesn't always happen. So if a person smokes three cigarettes a month, are they addicted? What about 3 a week? What about those that eat two candy bars a day and smoke three a week, are they addicted to both? And bottom line even if we accept smoking three cigarettes a day is an addiction, I maintain that this isn't harmful, and that other factors will kill this person off first, like diet, obesity Slim kills more in this country than anything, and when a smoking obese person dies it is often automatically blamed on the cigarettes, which is often a faulty conclusion.

But I am far from a lone bird on social smoking, or take it or leave it smoking, I guess your beliefs don't allow for any deviations.
GetYourOwn Offline
#41 Posted:
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I am addicted to food and sex.
Slimboli Offline
#42 Posted:
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aberdeen ... you just can't admit that you are wrong, and continue to be in complete denial of the facts..

Just because your experience with nicotine is different than the majority of people in this world ... dosen't change proven medical facts.

I can see that I have run up against someone who's mind is made up ... so this is where I get off. There is no longer a need for me to keep going rounds over this with you.At least we agree to disagree ...
Slimboli Offline
#43 Posted:
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... sorry, I didn't mean to 'bold' my last sentence. That should have been a 'paragraph' break.

In conclusion ... a small circle of friends who like to 'social smoke' cigarettes once in awhile dosen't even dent the millions of those who are addicted to nicotine. Get real ...

And I have a hard time trying to understand why you try to compare 'apples to oranges' with the poor diet theory. They are two completely different issues. Yes, poor diet causes massive health problems, another proven medical fact ... but what does that have to do with what smoking cigarrettes does to people? Both are equally destructive if abused.

But ... I grow weary of running this treadmill with you, and getting nowhere.

So let's just end it here ... and get on with our lives.
GetYourOwn Offline
#44 Posted:
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Sorry aberdeen but your thoughts on obesedy are not founded. Sure Obese people tend to have more heart attacks and cases of diabeties than a person with a good diet. The 3 top causes of death are heart disease, cancer and stroke. All of these are side effects of inhaling smoke. Arteries that harden are not caused by over-eating. Lung cancer is not from over-eating. If you have a poor diet and smoke then your risks increase. But, like Slim says you can not compare the two.
If you think you are not addicted to one of the most highly additive drugs around then maybe you are not. You do not smoke when you are sick is not proof. Your posts sound like you are in denial. If you ever crave nicotine physically or mentally then you are addicted. Nicotine does not sustain life. Food does. That is why you can't use those examples.
My reason for not smoking cigarettes: When I was a teenager I dipped snuff. One day I took a dry can of Copenhagen and rolled a cigarette. I have never touched a cigarette since. Good Luck!
aberdeen Offline
#45 Posted:
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okay we disagree to disagree. But I maintain that my current intake of cigarettes, which is fluent from 0 a day to 5 a day does not pose a significant health risk to me in itself. If I can't compare to food, what about alcohol. At least you admitted that is someone quits smoking for a year or for 20 years, they aren't addicted anymore. But the common thought is that once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic and one drink will cause a person to resume old habits. That seems pretty hardcore, but yet most people can enjoy alcohol without getting addicted. If you have one or two drinks a day Slim I wouldn't call you an alcoholic, in fact this is starting to seem very healthy to do. My dad smoked two packs of cigarettes a day for 20 years, then met my mom and quit instantly, cold turkey. And now 40 years later I wouldn't say he is addicted to nicotine and is in perfect health. My point is addiction effects people differently, genetics seems to be a big factor. Most people can't quit cold turkey, some can, and some never get addicted in the first place. It isn't a simple all or nothing proposition. Also Get Your Own, obsesity does lead to heart attacks and diabetes.
Slimboli Offline
#46 Posted:
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aberdeen -- only a doctor that is licenced to practice medicine can determine if your 5 cigarette a day habit is having an adverse effect on your health. You are only assuming that they are not having an effect on your health, because you won't know until it hits you.

... and with your 'disagree to disagree' comment, you just showed me that you can't (or won't) agree on anything.

Do me a favor ... and look up the word 'denial' ...

As I will agree with many of the statements you made, you can't deny that cigarettes (tobacco) is still one of the major heath risks to the majority of our population. To just turn a 'blind-eye', and jusify that there is no risk involved because you know of exceptions to that fact, just shows your ignorance ... or more precisely, your arrogance.

I'm through with this ... you can have the last word(s), and I promise I will not comment on this again.

I grow weary of beating my head against a brick wall ...
aberdeen Offline
#47 Posted:
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I will look up denial but for your convenience I include the definition of addiction as you have been abusing the term to fit your outlook. I also said my habit varied from 0 a day to 5 a day at the most, interesting how you jump on the five and make that the amount I smoke and ignore the 0, that sums up how you have dishonestly carried on this discusstion. You have been absolutely inflexible and stubborn in this post, you refuse to concede any points and in fact seldom answered any of my points directly instead using personal attacks of denial and ignorance. Again I think this is because you are too emotional over the subject to have a give and take. I conceded many points, ie nicotine provides a rush to the brain, that the habit is dangerous if abused and addictive if abused, but you still cling to the all or nothing proposition.

ad·dict Pronunciation Key (-dkt)

n 1: someone who is so ardently devoted to something that it resembles an addiction 2: someone who is physiologically dependent on a substance; abrupt deprivation of the substance produces withdrawal symptoms v : to cause (someone or oneself) to become dependent (on something, esp. a narcotic drug)

ad·dic·tion Pronunciation Key (-dkshn)
n.

Compulsive physiological and psychological need for a habit-forming substance: a drug used in the treatment of heroin addiction.
An instance of this: a person with multiple chemical addictions.

The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or or involved in something.

1: being abnormally dependent on something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming (especially alcohol or narcotic drugs) [syn: dependence, dependency] 2: an abnormally strong craving

Slim, by reading these definitions, I don't know how you can sit there and tell me I'm as addicted as a two pack a day smoker, and the my habit is compulsory and that I am abnormally dependent, as I wouldn't be able to stop when sick and on average there are two days I week I don't smoke at all and don't feel withdrawal. The last definition is the best I think, being abnormally dependent on something that is physically habit forming, such as cigarettes. People who smoke a pack a day are abnormally dependent on the drug. But you just can't accept that there are many people out there that can enjoy the habit without becoming compulsive and ardently devoted to it.

I agree this can't be taken any further, especially since you are determined not to have a give and take discussion about it.
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#48 Posted:
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I know I said I wouldn't respond anymore to this, but I want to make a few things clear. I don't know where you got the idea that I said you were addicted. I never made such a claim ... and I have not been dishonest at all in this discussion. I also (in a previous post) admitted that I agreed to many of your statements.

Nicotine is addictive ... and that is the only point I was trying to make this entire thread. Smoke a pack or two a day for awhile, and you will see.

Addictions can be broken ... as many people have experienced, including your father.

Sorry if you think I made personal attacks on you by just using 'pointed' words to get my thought across, they were not intended to be personal ... just well chosen words I thought fitting. Thinking that you are arrogant, is just the impression I get from you.

Also, I'm not emotional about this issue at all, just stating well known and long standing facts ...

Are we done now?
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#49 Posted:
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If this is where you got it, "nicotine is highly addictive, and just because you only smoke a 'couple' a day doesn't mean you are not addicted."

This statement wasn't meant to imply you peronally. When I said you ... it was in the context of 'you' meaning the general population.

Sorry if you read more into what I meant, and took it personally ... but now I understand why you defended your position so strongly.
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#50 Posted:
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I promise this will also be my last response. I am not an arrogant person, I just felt like I was being lumped into the same category as a two pack a day smoker. My habit if you want to call it that is much different and not consistent. I realize that the point you were trying to make all this time but what I didn't understand you were trying to make, is that the chemical nicotine in itself is addictive, that we agree on and wasted a lot of time without this being clear. I guess my two biggest points are that it is possible for someone to enjoy a cigarette, without being addicted or becoming addicted. The question is when has it become an addiction, and I feel it becomes an addiction when it meets the criteria I used this morning on addiction, this holds true for alcohol, etc.

My second point is that it is my opinion that moderate smoking isn't necessarily harmful, but again how much is too much is very murky. Even heavy smokers after they quit eventually their bodies begin to heal themselves unless irreversible cancer has set in. I confess I am very defensive about this as I am often in societly lumped with a two pack smoker, especially with insurance, even if I only smoked a cigar a day and nothing else, most insurance companies would lump me in the same category as a heavy smoker. Finally my insurance agent put me down as a social smoker and even eliminated the cigarette part as he told me he personally thought the amount of cigarettes I smoke isn't a problem. And other than that I take very good care of myself.

I suppose for all the harm they have done cigarettes have become a very stigmatized product and not easy to enjoy this product as a recreational device.
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