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Rent a mailbox at The UPS Store.
They give you a real street address, not a PO box address, and there are always workers present who receive packages and will sign for them.
Result -- they accept ALL deliveries at ALL times. Doesn't matter which carrier, doesn't matter if the sender/vendor says "no PO box addresses", doesn't matter if a signature is required. They accept ALL of them. Then you just pick it up at your leisure.
Completely solves all these problems.
All my cigar and accessory shipments are sent to me this way, and have been for a long time. Never had a problem, and the simplicity and ease of it is just awesome.
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