joemar4 ... you say you've just filled your 4th desktop humidor, have a coolerdor that is about to burst and wonder how your hobby has gone so far ... welcome to the thundering herd, my friend ... you've come about as close to rasing a "dead-horse" topic as it's possible to get without drawing fire ... LOL
But, your real question asks if there's such a thing as cigars anonymous ... like anyone here would know??? ... hey, let's just say that if there WERE such an organization and anyone here knew of it's existance, they'd BE there, posting on the cigars anonymous BB, instead of posting HERE ...