Pecan,
I will accept #4 as a serious critisism. I am sure it comes off that way.
I do not take it personal, at all. I have been scrutinized daily for the last 20 years. But I do "defend" my points with what I know best, the fighting spirit of the Marine Corps. Normally that means attack.
In case you missed it, I am a 20 year retired Marine. Guess what, thin skinned Marines don't make it 20 years. Every day your decisions are questioned, your grooming, physical fitness, mannerisms, deportment, etc.. are looked at. That goes for every Marine, we all answer to someone.
On top of that, I became an air traffic controller about 16 years ago. You wanna talk about criticism. Every move you make is second guessed by either the supervisior watching you or the trainee you are responsible for training. Even though I have been qualified in three different control towers, when I start working in Tampa Intl, I will have to be "trained" again. Probably by someone that has never worked in another place. I will also be on probation, where I can be fired without cause for the first year.
Believe me, I don't take it personnaly. My wife and dog would be dead if I did.
I like fish, mostly raw. Cooked is OK.