This is where you're closest. There is "should" and there's reality. In theory, everyone is allowed to say anything they want. The reality is that one influential person's statements can cause another person to be violent, or if you prefer, cause an already violent person to choose a target. Similarly, a large number of statements from non-influential people can do the same. This is not without example.
Does this mean you have to stop giving your opinion? No. If you personally do wish that you saw no outward sign of gay people (or cowboys fans) in this world (that's what a number of people on this forum have said) and you're willing to accept a small percentage of responsibility for violence specifically targeting gay people (or cowboys fans), then I see no problem. The sad reality is that there are idiots in this world.
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