victor809
7 years ago
Tail-
A - a beating heart is meaningless. It's a muscle like any other. It will be replaceable by a machine at some point in the future so if you link that to life you're gonna have some issues.
B- huh? They cost you if you want them. But yes, they don't cost Joe taxpayer anything if he doesn't get one... And they do likely save him money
C- donations do pay for abortions. And possibly non government medical services reimbursement (don't know how that breaks down)
D- one could even argue planned Parenthood pays for some otherwise federally funded services
E- I agree.
F- I already said I think an abortion should be an option for either party. Both parties should be able to pull the plug.
G- see my above answer. But I get it, this is just you whining like a little snowflake.
victor809
7 years ago
Don't worry bgz... Victor6969 was the Victor that was going to kill the 4th coming of Jesus.

(Little known fact... Jesus has already returned twice. The first second coming was cut short when he was lynched for looking at a white woman in the south in the 1700s. Ironically, the person who killed him would have been aborted if his mother had an opportunity. The second second coming was just an unfortunate choice of time and location as he was born Aug 5, 1945 in Hiroshima Japan.)
tailgater
7 years ago

Tail-
A - a beating heart is meaningless. It's a muscle like any other. It will be replaceable by a machine at some point in the future so if you link that to life you're gonna have some issues.
B- huh? They cost you if you want them. But yes, they don't cost Joe taxpayer anything if he doesn't get one... And they do likely save him money
C- donations do pay for abortions. And possibly non government medical services reimbursement (don't know how that breaks down)
D- one could even argue planned Parenthood pays for some otherwise federally funded services
E- I agree.
F- I already said I think an abortion should be an option for either party. Both parties should be able to pull the plug.
G- see my above answer. But I get it, this is just you whining like a little snowflake.

victor809 wrote:



You do loves to argue.

Look at A.
I said stopping a beating heart is not killing. You appear to agree, but you feel compelled to add your 2 cents.
Ditto with B.

C, you're simply wrong.

You get the gist.

But I'm the snowflake.

Your outburst is duly noted.




bgz
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7 years ago

Don't worry bgz... Victor6969 was the Victor that was going to kill the 4th coming of Jesus.

(Little known fact... Jesus has already returned twice. The first second coming was cut short when he was lynched for looking at a white woman in the south in the 1700s. Ironically, the person who killed him would have been aborted if his mother had an opportunity. The second second coming was just an unfortunate choice of time and location as he was born Aug 5, 1945 in Hiroshima Japan.)

victor809 wrote:



Oh good, you did your part to stop the apocalypse!!!
victor809
7 years ago
Well .. no... Cuz he was aborted. 😉
victor809
7 years ago
Tail... I'm assuming you were being sarcastic when you stated "lets see what we learned : purposely killing a beating heart is not killing at all"

That sounds like sarcasm,and I responded as it sounded. If you were being serious and you actually believe that then I agree with you.
tailgater
7 years ago

Tail... I'm assuming you were being sarcastic when you stated "lets see what we learned : purposely killing a beating heart is not killing at all"

That sounds like sarcasm,and I responded as it sounded. If you were being serious and you actually believe that then I agree with you.

victor809 wrote:



Funny.
I assumed you were being sarcastic.


Meanwhile, your blather about the robo-heart is irrelevant.
If a machine can make a heart beat, that doesn't mean that a natural heart beat is not a sign of life.

Alternatively, if a heart beat machine is keeping your pappy alive and you purposely unplug him are you saying it's not killing?

So I say again.
I thought you were being sarcastic.

Or was it all just a ploy to hide your ignorance on how funding works?

victor809
7 years ago
No. My point is that a heart, while if present is a sign a person might be alive, it is not itself the definition of life.

The point is choose a different organ.

The anti abortion groups love talking about heartbeats, maybe that wasn't your point, but mine is simply that a heart is a primitive correlation to life which people have clung to since back when our medical knowledge was very poor.
tailgater
7 years ago

No. My point is that a heart, while if present is a sign a person might be alive, it is not itself the definition of life.

The point is choose a different organ.

The anti abortion groups love talking about heartbeats, maybe that wasn't your point, but mine is simply that a heart is a primitive correlation to life which people have clung to since back when our medical knowledge was very poor.

victor809 wrote:



You can keep a heart beating however you'd like.

The point is that if you stop it, the living being will die.



When I was a kid I didn't care about abortion.
Hell, I thought it might be a good plan B if I wasn't careful enough.

Then I was an expecting father.
After two miscarriages and fertility drugs for my wife we were cautiously optimistic.
And then I saw the ultrasound of my daughter at 12 weeks.
Tiny.
But 100% my little girl.

And yet still completely legal to kill if we wanted to execute that "choice" on that very same day.
12 weeks. First trimester. Fair game.

Keep it legal.
I get it.
It is a choice.
I understand.
But to refuse to acknowledge that it is absolutely 100% a life? To claim it's not a little human?
That's your own insecurities trying to justify your decision.
A decision made for convenience.


I'm not a zealot on the matter. I've got close friends that I love dearly who've had an abortion. It doesn't define a person, or at least it shouldn't.
But I shudder when I hear the cavalier and dismissive attitudes out there.
It shouldn't be called a mere choice.
It's an important decision and should be treated as such.

I'm just surprised that viewpoint offends so many.







victor809
7 years ago
I'm not offended by you thinking it should be an important choice.

But that's for you.

For someone else it isn't a decision which requires a second of thought.

Is that cavalier? Or is it absolute certainty that one does not under any circumstances want to be a parent? If you know yourself well enough to know that, why spend any time wringing your hands and wailing? This isn't ex post facto justification.

Just because an ultrasound had meaning to you doesn't mean it should have meaning to anyone else. It meant something to you because you were trying to get to that point, and what you saw was a future you wanted. That same scrap of paper doesn't mean anything to someone who doesn't want that future. It's absolutely meaningless. Trust me.
tailgater
7 years ago

I'm not offended by you thinking it should be an important choice.

But that's for you.

For someone else it isn't a decision which requires a second of thought.

Is that cavalier? Or is it absolute certainty that one does not under any circumstances want to be a parent? If you know yourself well enough to know that, why spend any time wringing your hands and wailing? This isn't ex post facto justification.

Just because an ultrasound had meaning to you doesn't mean it should have meaning to anyone else. It meant something to you because you were trying to get to that point, and what you saw was a future you wanted. That same scrap of paper doesn't mean anything to someone who doesn't want that future. It's absolutely meaningless. Trust me.

victor809 wrote:



I gave my opinion.
You claim you're not offended, and then go on to rant about it.

If you believe that most abortions are made from such conviction rather than sheer convenience then I'd suggest you look into how many women who aborted never become a parent.
If not being a parent is a firm decision I respect that. In your eyes I guess their only alternative is to abort.

Honest question: when you paid for the abortion, did you and your GF ever give consideration to adoption?

People won't buy a pair of jeans without trying on at least two. Yet they choose abortion without even understanding another option. That's 100% their right. But it IS cavalier in terms of it's impact on the decision to abort.
opelmanta1900
7 years ago


Just because an ultrasound had meaning to you doesn't mean it should have meaning to anyone else. It meant something to you because you were trying to get to that point, and what you saw was a future you wanted. That same scrap of paper doesn't mean anything to someone who doesn't want that future. It's absolutely meaningless. Trust me.

victor809 wrote:


What is meaning and who is determining it? Is it up to each of us to determine meaning or have meaning and truth been predetermined for our discovery? If it is in fact a thing for us to determine, each man for himself, how do we deal with situations where what you've determined as meaning and what I've determined as meaning come to a place where they can't coexist? How do we coexist with the meaning that Stephen Paddock and Dylan Klebold determined for themselves? Or the meaning Pol Pot and Joseph Stalin propogated?
victor809
7 years ago
Tail.... If you think that's a rant then you're more of a sensitive snowflake than I've said you are.

I don't pretend to know why people make the decisions they do. Honestly I don't know why most people have children. It makes zero sense to me, and I've always assumed a huge percentage do it simply because they think they're supposed to. But I'm likely wrong.

Adoption in my mind isn't an acceptable resolution. It's better than actually having a child, but has significant drawbacks when compared to abortion. It may be for others, not for me. I see two problems, 1- the mother still has to go through the wear and tear on her body, the weight gain, the restriction of activities, the stretch marks. 2- it still creates another child in this world which doesn't really need any more. (Yes I know everyone wants a cute white baby, but the world doesn't actually need more babies. If someone wants a kid that bad they should help the older ones out).

victor809
7 years ago
Opel... Meaning is an internal thing. Movements or social constructs may be external, but the meaning they have will always be internal. You can make someone do something. But you can't make it mean something to them....


(Actually.... That's a lie. You can, through proper application of demagoguery.... But that's what we call fanaticism.)
tailgater
7 years ago

Tail.... If you think that's a rant then you're more of a sensitive snowflake than I've said you are.

I don't pretend to know why people make the decisions they do. Honestly I don't know why most people have children. It makes zero sense to me, and I've always assumed a huge percentage do it simply because they think they're supposed to. But I'm likely wrong.

Adoption in my mind isn't an acceptable resolution. It's better than actually having a child, but has significant drawbacks when compared to abortion. It may be for others, not for me. I see two problems, 1- the mother still has to go through the wear and tear on her body, the weight gain, the restriction of activities, the stretch marks. 2- it still creates another child in this world which doesn't really need any more. (Yes I know everyone wants a cute white baby, but the world doesn't actually need more babies. If someone wants a kid that bad they should help the older ones out).

victor809 wrote:



To paraphrase:

Tail, if you think that's a rant, you've seen nothing yet!






Question: How does categorizing your objections to my posted opinions as a "rant" classify me as a snowflake?
You can do better than that.
victor809
7 years ago

To paraphrase:

Tail, if you think that's a rant, you've not read anything on cbid before!

tailgater wrote:


fify


Question: How does categorizing your objections to my posted opinions as a "rant" classify me as a snowflake?
You can do better than that.

snowflake wrote:


you sound sensitive. are you being sensitive?
opelmanta1900
7 years ago

Opel... Meaning is an internal thing. Movements or social constructs may be external, but the meaning they have will always be internal. You can make someone do something. But you can't make it mean something to them....


(Actually.... That's a lie. You can, through proper application of demagoguery.... But that's what we call fanaticism.)

victor809 wrote:


If meaning is nothing more than the result of social constructs, the worst thing that can be said about Hitler is that he was ahead of his time...
tailgater
7 years ago

fify


you sound sensitive. are you being sensitive?

victor809 wrote:



I'm delicate.



jjanecka
7 years ago
Yall are all monsters.
bgz
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7 years ago

Yall are all monsters.

jjanecka wrote:



Except tail... after reading some of the comments above, apparently he's a snowflake.

I'm not one to call people snowflakes (not really my thing)... but I trust victor's judgement on this one.
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