^ Agree. Change in perspective is a good way to look at things.
Why is this happening for me?
I like to take it one bit further, "What did I learn and how can I apply it going forward?" Past couple years I had to do a deep look at where I was going and some decisions I've made in the past. I've made some changes, took a step back that hopefully will give positive results and lead to two steps forward.
With hormone therapy and a few medical procedures I might be able to pass as an ugly chick and work the street corners for used lottery tickets and a pack of butts.
(OK the first part is true, the last part is trying to add levity)
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