tailgater,
I didn't say I was a pacifist. I said I don't support this war. That doesn't mean pacifism. And, no, I don't bear any scars from my family. Quite the opposite: these folks instilled a sense of independence and not wavering from your beliefs. If that's a scar, I'll take it. They are also against this war.
Further, I didn't say I 'knew better' than anyone else. What I was trying to do was point out that being anti war in Iraq was not anti-military personnel. The opposite, actually, is true.
Hog, you know I was kidding, I hope, about your running me off the road. Just a joke. And you are right. Cigars and beer are the great cement across political lines.
John