You are true but with ideas or sites with ideas there could something that would stir a memory or a emotion within me that would make me say. That is the one. I wasn't wanting someone to decide for me. I have an idea on what I want, I just was interested in seeing others so I could "create" my own in the image that defines how I feel.
You aren't alone Slim. It started out as the grim reaper and then from there I got married and it seemed to me that it fit everything together. I only want to be married once and for life, and that was the tattoo I have always wanted.
Thanks guys for the good and the bad.