OK, I got my terminology a little bass aackwards there cause I was trying to be cheeky with the phrase. What I -should- have said is, "Who's wife can I please?"
Having asked, niteorday volunteered his woman so she's going to get something interesting here in a couple days.
To allay fears, we can lay some rules:
1) you volunteer your woman as a target and post email. Volunteer bombardier steps up, assumes position and info is exchanged. Bombardier moves forward with volunteering his/her OWN partner/wife/husband/gay or lesbian lover, just like a normal PIF.
2) Like Fight Club, we do not talk about how we've set up the other half as a target.
3) You do not talk about Fight Club.
4) Cigars are NOT primary and ONLY to be sent at the whim of the sender. The primary target(s) are usually women so find out what they like before you send lilac soap that they're allergic too.
5) Participation: You can only volunteer your S.O. once every 3 weeks. Much more often than that and they'll come to expect it and then you're in for a world of hurt when you forget.
6) You DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB.
ok, any questions? It's in niteorday's court to ask for a volunteer.