big chief
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:20:00 PM
didn't take it in high school.

Took it in college, a tough class.

wheelrite
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:22:00 PM
^ You did'nt learn to speak till college ?

wow,just wow !!

wheel,

jackconrad
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:22:00 PM
I AM THE MASTER ! Have spoken hundreds of times sometimes to thousands. Gets my juices flowing.
rfenst
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:23:00 PM
I took it both in high school and college. It was much more academic and, therefore, more difficult in college.
Cycleman
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:23:00 PM
People fear public speeking more than they fear death.......

That tells ya something......

Not sure what... but I'm smoking a good Padron right now.... hahaha

big chief
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:33:00 PM
it does get the juices going--4-500 been my max audience in private life, usually with a guitar, though...

In real 'public' life max of perhaps 150 at large controversial meeting.

They must hammer this subject in law school.

rfenst
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:36:00 PM
Nope.
big chief
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:37:00 PM
in college, then?
rfenst
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:53:00 PM
Speech was mandatory in undergrad just to get my AA degree. I think it is a very good required class for all to take.
RICKAMAVEN
Monday, April 27, 2009 3:54:00 PM
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i could never get my juices flowing in front of that many people.

JonR
Monday, April 27, 2009 4:05:00 PM
Yo Jack:

"I AM THE MASTER ! Have spoken hundreds of times sometimes to thousands. Gets my juices flowing."

Bunnies don't count.

JonR

jojoc
Monday, April 27, 2009 4:08:00 PM
They must hammer this subject in law school.

you would think, but as i recall, the only public speaking I did was the result of elective competitions / clinic work that i signed up for. could have made it all the way through without any public speaking, other than getting called on in class.

andytv
Monday, April 27, 2009 4:54:00 PM
took it in college......aced it.

I don't have much trouble with speeches.

pacman357
Monday, April 27, 2009 5:19:00 PM
I was in debate in high school. I was terrified of speaking in public. For the last 20+ years, I've made a living out of doing the kind of work that routinely requires public speaking. I just kept working at it and it got easier. I'm nervous for about the first 2 minutes of every trial, when I'm first talking with a jury panel, then it's gone.

BTW, I wasn't that great in debate class. Now, public speaking is like second nature to me.

8trackdisco
Monday, April 27, 2009 5:22:00 PM
'..People fear public speeking more than they fear death....... ..'

--------------------------------------------

I don't fear either of them.

My wife dying before me, having a stroke, and having the **** during a roadtrip do.

barryneedleman
Monday, April 27, 2009 5:27:00 PM
Was required when I went to university.
big chief
Monday, April 27, 2009 9:04:00 PM
the more you do, the better you get.

It's not much different than...well, you know...

Lizardo
Tuesday, April 28, 2009 12:32:00 AM
I didn't take it at all, and I still do public speaking engagements.

Just got asked today to do several.

DrMaddVibe
Tuesday, April 28, 2009 4:20:00 AM
What I found helped me in situations where I had to speak in public was know the subject. Inside and out. Pro and Con side of the issue. Keep it simple and explain it in everyman's terms. No technical jargon or abbreviations. Breathe. If you think you getting stumped on something, pretend cough and get back on track. Look around the room and engage your audience. Don't use the podium as a crutch...walk away from it. Use your hands. PRACTICE your speech.

For God's sake don't go up there and use "Ummmm's", "Ya know's" or "Uh Uh Uh's". If you have to take a page from the Great Communicator. Practice your speeches in a mirror, write the key points you want/need to emphasize on a 3x5 index card. Put it on the podium and glance at it if you feel you're getting stuck but don't read from it.

I'm sure with enough practice you'll find what style works for you in public speaking. It's a gift that some people naturally have and others have to work at it. You should ALWAYS be prepared to give at least a 10 minute brief if you're called in from your boss, or his boss. Hit 'em with a non-offensive ice breaker joke to get them smiling and go from there. Keep it fluid without going rigid. Think of a stand-up comic or rockstar vs a robot or a machine. Engage the audience and personalize it. Make them feel what you're telling them. Don't point or stare at anyone either. Think gorilla in a cage...don't stare them in the eyes...you'll enrage them.

I'm sure there's other tricks, but that's what's worked for me. Good luck. PS for your classes, if you can...keep it informative and something you're knowledgeable on like...CIGARS!

DrafterX
Tuesday, April 28, 2009 6:52:00 AM
I dropped it twice in college and had to take it my final semester to graduate...... dropping it twice actually forced me to make two or three times as many speeches..... still not happy about speaking but work requires it every now and then... but normally to just a couple dozen or so...