My oldest daughter is getting married this Sunday, so the wife and youngest daughter are down in NC helping out with the wedding plans. I’m heading down tomorrow morning. My youngest and her husband live a couple doors away, and we share a common driveway that runs along side my house.

I’m sitting on the front porch this afternoon enjoying a smoke when my son in law flies out the driveway in his SUV. Since I’m up on the porch, I can see down into his car, and I notice a f*cking bimbo slouched down in the passenger seat. I’ve kind of suspected this for a while, but this pretty much confirmed my suspicions.

My first reaction was to chase down the car, drag the ****** weed out and kick his cheating arse. The dude is military police, built like a brick chit house and has 25 years on me so that wouldn’t have gone too well. Now that I’ve calmed down a bit, I don’t know whether to confront him, or just pass the info on to my daughter. Either way, I’m not doing anything till Monday, as I don’t want to ruin my other daughter’s wedding day.

Any advice? Thanks.

II'd phone your daughter right now, then go over to the house and leave a note explaining what you did. If you are worried about the dude getting violent, place a call to his boss and the police letting them know that you plan on confronting him.

If you want to take the easier route; call your wife and let the women figure out what to do.

I think I would let the weekend pass and then tell her. I've never been cheated on, but I would think that if I was and close friends or family knew but didn't tell me, I'd be pissed. Who are you more loyal to, your daughter or this guy?

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The fact that you didn't react to your first instinct is probably a good start. He'll still be a dirtbag after the wedding so there is no need to ruin that for your other daughter.

I would say that unless your daughter suspects he is cheating on her, you could be in for quite a bit of denial both from your daughter and son in law. I think Andy is on the right track with at least talking it over with your wife first.

^Also, as long as you know, and he doesn't know that you know, you have the upper hand.

^ I agree with dunkaroos. Don't ruin your oldest daughter's wedding with this drama. This is her day. But once they go on their honeymoon I'd tell the daughter with the wife present and let her handle it. She's an adult and it's her life so you should respect that.

Or just take out the a**hole.....(j/k.)

Dave,

I gotta agree with Dunkaroos also. Wait until Monday to talk with your daughter about this. You said that he is Military? Is he Air Force? Maybe I can get his supervisors number so you can contact them also. You have my e-mail addy. Sorry that you had to witness this crap.

Joe

u sure it was a bimbo?...maybe u should gather more evidence first......perhaps she (or he, you never know with the millitary these days) just bleaches the hair up there.....and down there?

go over to the house and install some hidden cameras.

pictures will go a long way in divorce court.

Seriously.......I couldn't sit there with my mouth shut while some whore is **** the man my little baby married....but this is an issue that requires a woman's sensitivity. Tell your wife and let her make the call.

If your daughter is pissed that the info was delayed you can point to your wife and say, "She told me to keep quiet".

I'd confront him, first. Tell him what you saw and see if he comes clean.

If he does... tell HIM to tell your daughter himself. Otherwise, you tell her.

If he doesn't admit it, but denies it, tell him you're going to tell your daughter what you saw and let her come to her own conclusions.

seriously, make sure you are sure, before confronting the fool after the wedding

"I couldn’t sit there with my mouth shut while some whore is **** the man my little baby married" - andytv

Dude... the chick isn't to blame. The cheater is to blame. She may or may not even know he's married.

Tough call,,,

But,I'd wait till after the Wedding,no reason to spoil things on your other daughters big day.

Be careful how you approach this.Be calm and as diplomatic as possibble.

Good Luck,,

wheel,

^ BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZT.

She is a whore.

First of all, a woman can tell a man is married (or in a relationship) as soon as she walks into the house.

Second of all, she slouches in his car when he drives her down the driveway.

^^13

If she left his house,then she knows he is married.

That said, I do agree that the cheater is to blame more than the unattached party.

You are doing the right thing. Wait till after the wedding. Don't say anything to your older daughter, let her have her day and honeymoon. When you get back home have a sit down with your younger daughter and wife. Your daughter has to make a decision on wether to dump her husband or to work things out. I'm sure he has cheated before and he will cheat again. Your daughter should be checked for any std's. Good Luck.

#15 - You win. She's a whore.

(you got her number?)

Man that stinks. You won't get to fully enjoy the wedding, carrying the knowledge of what you saw.

If at all possible, I would have them both there when you discuss what happened. Leave your suspicions aside for now, it won't help adding "I think he's been".

Be there for your daughter, she will need as much emotional support as she can get. Try to gauge your actions on how your daughter reacts to the discussion.

In the end, it's your daughter who will determine what to do, but let her know you will support her in any way you can.

God Bless you and your family,

Don

17 - agreed. May not be the first time, and probably won't be the last. Cheaters cheat - it's what they are and what they do - he's human garbage. She DOES need to get herself checked for STD's - if he has managed to contract an embarrassing infection, he certainly isn't going to tell his wife, because that would mean explaining where it came from.