after the birth of bradley, our second child, we felt we had enough children. i was going to have a hernia operation so i asked the doctor to throw in the vas, no extra charge.
he sat down with bith of us to make sure we understood the implications. back then in 1967, the idea of reconnecting was not even visualized.
when toby was 34 in 1970, she decided to have a hysterectomy. she said enough with the monthly inconveniences and she didn't want to go through the hot flashes or whatever of change of life problems that were coming soon.
toby is a smart cookie.
neither of us has ever regreted our desicions until i found out about the sperm donor program. i could have
supplemented our income, maybe not by much, but a dollar here and a dollar there, it all adds up.