Threadjack on;
My wife had deep roots (read "all roots") in this area. This is her home, and it is where her family lives.
I think I can convince her that she would be happy in Florida (my home), but there are some issues that need resolved first.
Namely, her Grandmother........who is very old and very mean and in a nursing home. My wife;s mother died over ten years ago, so she nis really the only one who has taken care of her mother'm mom.
Her Dad is somewhat incapable of taking care of himself also, but I think I can work around that somehow (he would probably have to move down too).
so in a nutshell, once granny kicks it, I will begin to apply more pressure.....hopefully I will have moved within 5-6 years.
before I get criticized for being selfish (which I am), I will say that I alos have several unselfish reasons for moving........quality education, better job opportunities, closer to MY mom....who ADORES the little one., etc. Western PA is just so stagnant and backwards to me anymore.
threadjack off.