grmcooper
Friday, May 27, 2011 11:26:48 PM
Nurse Dawns twin brother died this morning. That's some heavy chit. WTF is up with suicide. 😣
tj2001cobra
Friday, May 27, 2011 11:59:10 PM
Sorry bro. Completely selfish way to go out. Hope you guys are doing ok.
grmcooper
Saturday, May 28, 2011 12:03:51 AM
Thanks TJ she is doing as well as expected.
lluvia
Saturday, May 28, 2011 12:26:49 AM
Love and hugs to her from us, Mike. Please let her know we are praying.
DaQueenBeez
Saturday, May 28, 2011 12:40:14 AM
I know this is undiplomatic, but that chickenchit crap is...

Weak

Selfish

Cowardly

I'm so sorry for Dawn - no one should have to deal with such horrible fallout. Prayers headed your way, my friend - I hope everyone is doing as well as they can. I'm SO GLAD you are able to be there for your hunny and not still on the road!

Love from Idaho

grmcooper
Saturday, May 28, 2011 12:49:03 AM
Thanks Tammy. Im glad im home when this went down.

Hope all is good in Tammyland!

grmcooper
Saturday, May 28, 2011 12:50:00 AM
Thank you Erica. I will let her know.
chiefburg
Saturday, May 28, 2011 1:06:30 AM
So sad to hear. Most who commit suicide are depressed, have various forms of mental illness, and cannot logically see any other alternative. Hence, they take their own life. If they were truly in a good state of mental health, they would never commit suicide in the first place. Many types of depression and mental illness are not easy to see and can be masked by behaviors. So, I don't find it cowardly because they really don't have the mental capacity to make that determination. While us mentally stable folks may THINK that's why they commit suicide, those that do see it as the only alternative to their problems.

Again - so sad to hear. It might be beneficial for those close to seek some counseling of their own so they can properly deal with the situation. Dawn will go through the stages of grieving and it's a good idea for you to look those up so you can understand what she's going through. Those stages can be Googled. She'll really need some support to make it through this. I'm glad you were home as well.

If there is anything I can do, drop me a PM and I'll do my best.

Thunder.Gerbil
Saturday, May 28, 2011 1:34:27 AM
Holy crap...

Aside from my condolences, I don't have any comments to offer, but you know how to reach me, the phone is always on if you want to talk my friend.

smelly4tay
Saturday, May 28, 2011 2:12:48 AM
😞 Sorry Coop and family.
rfenst
Saturday, May 28, 2011 2:29:33 AM
Please accept my sincere condolences.
bassman45
Saturday, May 28, 2011 6:33:57 AM

So sad to hear. Most who commit suicide are depressed, have various forms of mental illness, and cannot logically see any other alternative. Hence, they take their own life. If they were truly in a good state of mental health, they would never commit suicide in the first place. Many types of depression and mental illness are not easy to see and can be masked by behaviors. So, I don't find it cowardly because they really don't have the mental capacity to make that determination. While us mentally stable folks may THINK that's why they commit suicide, those that do see it as the only alternative to their problems.

Again - so sad to hear. It might be beneficial for those close to seek some counseling of their own so they can properly deal with the situation. Dawn will go through the stages of grieving and it's a good idea for you to look those up so you can understand what she's going through. Those stages can be Googled. She'll really need some support to make it through this. I'm glad you were home as well.

If there is anything I can do, drop me a PM and I'll do my best.

chiefburg wrote:

Well said!Sorry for the loss.

grmcooper
Saturday, May 28, 2011 8:31:19 AM
Nurse Dawn had a horrible headache for 2 days before. The morning of the death it was gone.

That freaked her out.

Thank you for the thoughts she's a mess. Like I said sure glad i'm home......

tonyt722
Saturday, May 28, 2011 8:44:58 AM
Damn dude, sorry for your loss. Prayers out to you and your family.
lou2row
Saturday, May 28, 2011 8:59:21 AM
My condolences my friend.
TMCTLT
Saturday, May 28, 2011 9:03:53 AM

Nurse Dawns twin brother died this morning. That's some heavy chit. WTF is up with suicide. 😣

grmcooper wrote:

Mike, I lost my youngest brother this way so I completely understand what she's going through....and short of what Jerry said there's NO understanding the why. I concur that it is NOT chicken**** as some have said, it is also NOT because they're weak minded.....quite the opposite I believe. In some cases, they've lived life as we know it (quality of which is getting worse by the day) and decided they've seen enough. Some would say that this takes GREAT strength to do such a thing, those who say they are weak individuals I think are more self centered and are hurt and angry because of THEIR personal loss and lack of how to deal with that aspect of it.....IMHO Either way it's a very tragic thing and my prayers go out to Dawn and your entire family. God Bless

Gene363
Saturday, May 28, 2011 9:16:39 AM

Nurse Dawns twin brother died this morning. That's some heavy chit. WTF is up with suicide. 😣

grmcooper wrote:

My condolences.

For years I was angry at a fellow for committing suicide until I listened to Deconstructing 'Myths About Suicide' by Author Thomas Joiner. *

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=126365907 

You can hear it online or DL the podcast.

That fellow was the Father of one of my son's best friends. The two of them discovered the Father after he had committed suicide. That experience left a mark on both boys for obvious reasons.

* Yeah it was on NPR, but it is one talk show on XM that doesn't have constant advertisements, I just yell at them a lot.

wheelrite
Saturday, May 28, 2011 9:42:30 AM
Cooper..

I'm so sorry for your family...

thoughts and prayers..

wheel,

wvwa34
Saturday, May 28, 2011 9:57:34 AM
WOW-Very sad.................. The family may never know the demons he was trying to deal with???? Very tough!!!! Prayers for the family, God bless........
itsawaldo
Saturday, May 28, 2011 10:02:43 AM
Prayers sent!