Jurrasic_Jenna
12 years ago

I'm low. Do you need my address or do you still have access to my account?

Abrignac wrote:




Ohh do I have the Gurkha's for you! Lol... [sarcasm]

Even outside I feel like I get looks when I have tried to smoke and the baby was playing.. So I thought maybe it wasn't politically right even if we were outside.

Baitfish I've had before so I know that one is a nice small smoke. I have had the larger obsidian and it was OK..maybe i can get a Jenna night out and hit the store .... Thanx for the ideas...
Abrignac
12 years ago

Ohh do I have the Gurkha's for you! Lol... [sarcasm]

Even outside I feel like I get looks when I have tried to smoke and the baby was playing.. So I thought maybe it wasn't politically right even if we were outside.

Baitfish I've had before so I know that one is a nice small smoke. I have had the larger obsidian and it was OK..maybe i can get a Jenna night out and hit the store .... Thanx for the ideas...

Jurrasic_Jenna wrote:



You can ugh keep the Gurkhas. I'll happily take any Fuentes you have though.
wheelrite
12 years ago

OK so I know that there are very few moms her but I know there a lot of new dads. Being a stay a home mom now and not being at work I went from smoking 5-7 cigars a week to maybe one eveyweek maybe every few weeks... I'm dying here without it but the only time to smoke is when the baby goes to bed at night but by then I'm tired too... Has any one mastered this timing business ? I would love to start emptin my humidor and smoking more...

Jurrasic_Jenna wrote:




Have a smoke while Nursing the baby,,,


glad I could help....

wheel,,
DaQueenBeez
12 years ago
Jenna - my kiddos are much older, but what worked/works for me:
Find some PCs & panatella's you like. They don't take as long.
Carve out "me" time in the evening after bedtime and in the morning before shower and kiddo-wakey time.
Slowly shift kiddo's bedtime to an hour or so earlier. (easier said than done, I know! A few minutes at a time takes forever, but worked best for me!)
Put a bootprint on dad's keister! Schedule one or two days a week that HE is in charge of bedtime and YOU get the evening off!
Get used to less of that "me" time overall. No way around it, I'm afraid. It will be back sooner than you realize, and you'll be wishing you could trade "me" time for kiddo time. Enjoy what you have right now!
KingoftheCove
12 years ago

That's what parents do when they bring another human being into the world.

They sacrifice their own leisure for the betterment of their child/children.

For the time being. Do without.

m j toal wrote:


+1
Many many years ago, our oldest, at that time not quite 2, was running around the camp site with a stick in his mouth, puffing it like a cigar........the stick looked eerily like a corona......

My wife and I had a "talk".......it was apparent that my feeble attempts at "sneaking" cigars was a total failure.....

I quit smoking cigars for a long time.....only missed it for a month or two.....then.....so what.

My kids are all grown up, and I took up the hobby again several years ago.....now there's Internet cigars and all that cool stuff..........

I'm glad I made that decision.......
wheelrite
12 years ago

+1
Many many years ago, our oldest, at that time not quite 2, was running around the camp site with a stick in his mouth, puffing it like a cigar........the stick looked eerily like a corona......

My wife and I had a "talk".......it was apparent that my feeble attempts at "sneaking" cigars was a total failure.....

I quit smoking cigars for a long time.....only missed it for a month or two.....then.....so what.

My kids are all grown up, and I took up the hobby again several years ago.....now there's Internet cigars and all that cool stuff..........

I'm glad I made that decision.......

KingoftheCove wrote:



I can relate,,,

I quit smoking weed when my daughter was in Kindergarten and a Police Officer came to class and burned a wafer that smelled like pot. She came home and told us. I tossed my bong that evening,,

But I haven't taken up that vice again,,


wheel,
Thunder.Gerbil
12 years ago

I can relate,,,

I quit smoking weed when my daughter was in Kindergarten and a Police Officer came to class and burned a wafer that smelled like pot. She came home and told us. I tossed my bong that evening,,

But I haven't taken up that vice again,,


wheel,

wheelrite wrote:



m j toal
12 years ago

+1
Many many years ago, our oldest, at that time not quite 2, was running around the camp site with a stick in his mouth, puffing it like a cigar........the stick looked eerily like a corona......

My wife and I had a "talk".......it was apparent that my feeble attempts at "sneaking" cigars was a total failure.....

I quit smoking cigars for a long time.....only missed it for a month or two.....then.....so what.

My kids are all grown up, and I took up the hobby again several years ago.....now there's Internet cigars and all that cool stuff..........

I'm glad I made that decision.......

KingoftheCove wrote:



Bingo.

Spoken like a true prodigy.
itsawaldo
12 years ago
Husband comes home from work, hand kid to husband head out to patio with your favorites!
Smoke and libation.
Mandobro
12 years ago

Perhaps get Dad to make sure you get some personal time.

As a grandparent, I am reasonably aware of how time consuming raising an infant is.

I also am aware that you must somehow make some time for just you.

Dunno how you can find it, but you must do so.

An hour here, an hour there - you have got to have some relief.

If not, it will drag you down.

you need it, you clearly have earned it, you owe it to yourself.

I suggest you not approach it as "smoke" time, but as personal time in which you often choose to smoke.

triodes wrote:




I agree. Daddy can take over for an evening or weekend afternoon. I know I did.

I'll take the Gurkhas.
ZRX1200
12 years ago
Ohhh.....forgot Tatuaje PCRs are da bomb.
wheelrite
12 years ago

Husband comes home from work, hand kid to husband head out to patio with your favorites!
Smoke and libation.

itsawaldo wrote:



Wrong,,,,

My Broad was a stay at home mom for the 1st 14 yrs we were married. I worked 12 hr days 5 1/2 days a week...

Her job was to keep the house, tend to the kids and give me sex,,,


wheel,
ZRX1200
12 years ago
Poor Nurse Terrie......
wheelrite
12 years ago

Poor Nurse Terrie......

ZRX1200 wrote:



oh and I put her through College too...[ram27bat]
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