pablo: i've seen a lot more het couples doing a lot more sexual things in public than i've seen gay couples doing -- even in san francisco. i don't want to see ANYONE playing tonsil hockey while i'm trying to watch a movie or eat dinner in a restaurant.
blood: (you KNOW that name is just sooooo studly!) ๐ heh. my brother's gay. i knew him and his friends pretty early on in my life. i grew up knowing and being friends with gays and lesbians -- didn't know a bisexual until i hit college though. she was mighty popular. heh.
you know, it's interesting, though, to take this a step further -- there's a current scientific theory that asserts that gay males and lesbians may be influenced by hormones more than heterosexuals are. the "manifestation" of this is that many gay men have higher sex drives than het men do; lesbian women may have lower sex drives than het women do.
there are two "cultural anecdotes" (i.e., JOKES) that bear this out (if it's true). the stereotypical gay man has a high sex drive and doesn't want to "settle down" with just one guy. the stereotypical lesbian couple are quick to form an exclusive, monogamous couplehood and move in together quickly after meeting. the term "LBD" or "lesbian bed death" refers to the tendency for many lesbians to basically stop having sex after a relatively short time as a couple living together (straight men know this as "welcome to the club!" syndrome after marriage -- ba dum dum!)
anyway, the jokes:
Q what does a gay man bring to a second date?
A what second date?
Q what does a lesbian bring to a second date?
A a U-Haul
ba dum dum. there's your queer culture lesson du jour.