(Thank you Seth for recreating the thread)
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At times like this it is very difficult for me to express exactly what I'm feeling. I found this poem and I think it speaks for most of us. Tony and Sara are reunited again and he is free from pain and even though it hurts to have lost him I know he is in a far better place.
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Liz, the poem is beautiful.
I feel a little awkward posting this, because I didn't know him. So many people have said such positive & loving things about Tony, I felt I should try to learn a little about him, so I followed every link I could find. While reading about an update to his condition back on 11/9, this portion hit me hard:
"He talks about Sara, and how much he misses her. He
is scared and not sure what to do. There are pictures
of Sara, their wedding, and their dogs around the
room, and he knows Sara and his dog Charlie are gone."
I have a wife, 2 kids, and 2 dogs. Without thinking about it a picture formed in my mind of laying in a hospital bed, in pain, with their pictures around me, knowing I would never see them again. I just sat there for 10 minutes feeling nothing but intense sorrow. Beside the physical pain, I can't imagine the emotional pain he was feeling. The reason I bring this up, is I believe what Liz wrote is true, and maybe even more of a blessing than we think:
Tony and Sara are reunited again and he is free from pain.
I'm sorry I never got to meet Tony. I hope he knows what a positive effect his life had on those around him. I hope people keep posting their positive experiences with Tony, so that even though he is no longer with us here on earth, new people (like me) will get a chance to read about him, and learn from him, for a long time to come.