i would call myself a christian... Although in "Times of need" i would say my first move is to turn towards my friends!
I went through some pretty rough times several years back, and my few close friends that i have an my parents all pulled around me and helped me through.
Sometimes when your down, no matter how much you pray to what ever "god" you choose to worship, it is always nice to have something tangable to lean on.
Wether it be an actual voice on the other end of the phone, a soft shoulder to cry on, a buddy taking time out to go have a couple beers with you, your partner sitting with you at the dinner table listening to you gripe about your day.
I have heard it said "god first family second". I would have to say they should be one in the same. God is great, faith is great.. but you know.. when one of your buddies you have know since you were five gives you a big hug, looks you in the eye and says .. "hey, its going to be ok, I will always be here if you need me"..
it just does something to you!!
just my little .2 cents.
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