Tank was talking to one of his cousins (younger) about arguing with wives/girlfriends/females (your choice)
If I remember correctly, tank told him if the arguement wasn't more important than the person you are argueing with, is it really so important to argue?
If I remember incorrectly, my apologies Tank. We can argue about it later. j/k
Congratulations. Sounds like you have a winner, if she understands about the cigar habit.
Deb