What I think or what you think is not important. This should be a closed discussion between the father and the mother only and ultimately decided solely by the mother- since she’s the sole bearer of the baby.
By using such words as “father”, “mother”, “baby”, it should be obvious that I’m pro life and I believe the overwhelming vast majority of the people, including all mothers, are pro life too. Even as a male I can imagine for a mother to choose abortion it must be the hardest thing she’ll do!
Therefore for her to make such a choice, she must have some truly compelling reason(s), such as she was raped, the biological father abandoned her, the biological father happens to be a close relative, her body’s not healthy enough to carry the baby to term, or having the baby will cause extreme financial hardship, etc.
If we were to outlaw all abortions, in my judgment it will create more social and moral problems than it solve. Even in the simple case of financial hardship, presumably with government social programs it can alleviate most of the problem. But the problem is our government is already in huge debt, and all those social programs funding come directly from you and me, and I don’t know about you but I’m already paying enough tax and I certainly don’t wanna pay extra for other men to spread his DNA.
And in a more complicated scenario, God forbid but hypothetically let’s say a South Dakota governor’s daughter was raped and she got pregnant. She doesn’t want to have to the baby because she doesn’t love her rapist, the rapist is an unemployed loser and therefore unable to financially support her and the baby, and most importantly the governor’s daughter herself is a minor and not ready to have children of her own.
I’m sure some politician’s logic is that oh my wife, my daughters, my mom, my sister and whoever I care for will never be a victim of sex crime. And that fifteen year old boys just cannot get fourteen year old girls pregnant. And that incest never happened in the country. And that all men are responsible as soon as they learn that the woman is pregnant. And that all States will allow polygamy if a husband got a mistress pregnant. And that all taxpayers are equally willing and capable to pay additional tax...
Well in that case, I can see no reason why any woman will ever have to think about the nightmare of having an abortion. And we should therefore stop wasting time on this topic.