moonman
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Friday, May 12, 2006 8:50:00 PM
Perhaps it is just me but it seems that some botls posting on these boards consider themselves to be the elite members of some kind of cigar fraternity. The only way to pledge is to offer numerous quantities of your cigars to them & continue to do so for the entire pledge period which will last for as long as they feel is appropriate. It also seems advisable to offer them praise for their supreme knowledge of cigars.

Just my observation.

havanaone
Friday, May 12, 2006 9:31:00 PM
Moonman,

Well Said!! Hey a Cigar Frat,Do you get a Certificate with That!!

Like OpusXXX extended! havanaone

victor808
Friday, May 12, 2006 10:20:00 PM
For a limited time only you too can be part of the Victor808 fraternity!

Join now! Only 5 Don Carlos' a month!

What do you get? I'll say hi to you on the street!

How can you pass up an opportunity like this????

CWFoster
Friday, May 12, 2006 10:25:00 PM
I have noticed one or two who may come off sounding that way. It has been my exerience however, that anybody I've ever sent cigars to usually sends back more, better, or more AND better than I sent! I had one or two dissapointing experience in trades, and simply went to occaisionally sending cigars with no agreement of reciprocation, and I find that the "Random Acts of Kindness" seem to be much more appreciated. Also, if you aren't expecting anything in return, anything you get is more than you expected, so you CAN'T feel like you were disappointed. When I first came on these boards, I was just back from a deployment. Someone asked about Puros Indios Special Aged Pyramides, and GoRob23 said he had a 'box' and didn't laike them, and offered to send some to the person asking. I asked if he could send me one or two, and he responded that the other person never got back to him, so he'd send me some. He sent the remaining five out of the mazo of six (how they come) and threw in some other cigars he thought I might like to try, altogether about ten or twelve sticks. I sent back a like number, but since I had just returned from overseas, I had some Montecristos, H.Upmanns, and Jose La Piedras (all Cuban) He went OFF on me and told me I sent too much! Next thing I know, I get a box from him that had three Opus X, and severalk other sticks I had never even SEEN before, but had heard about. I started hanging around on the boards, and learning more about this hobby, and now, if somebody doesn't agree with me, stuff 'em! I've formed my opinions based on what I've learned and what I've experienced, and I can defend my opinions to anyone who thinks they are foolish, and have. I'm still learning, but alot of my learning is now based on personal experience, rather than what others tell me. For instance, I've been pretty well flamed on a couple of Yahoo groups because I've said the Cubans are good, but not all that and a bag of chips! I confess, I haven't broken down and bought my first Cohiba, but if we are going to compare $20 cigars, what can you get from Nicaragua or the Dominican Republic for $20? La Aurora Preferidos? For the cost of 5 Cohibas, I can buy a box of Torano Exodus Golds and pocket alot of change! I'm not experienced in the EL's and other limited lines of ISOMs, but I've tried what I could afford, I've liked some, and disliked some, and that's what I base my opinions on. I hope I don't come off as arrogant or stuck up. Some people seem that way regardless of what they talk about. There are some guys on these boards that have been around since day one, and you can't fault them for hanging together. I've only been on here for about two and a half years, and

I've seen alot of guys come and go. Some come in, take advantage of everybodys generosity, and bail to go auction off what folks sent them on other forums. This is the only board I frequent regularly. I've been to some of the others, but this always seems like home. Relax, and enjoy.

dwalt10048
Friday, May 12, 2006 11:18:00 PM
Don't agree Moon. I'm not much of a poster, but I lurk almost everyday and have learned plenty. I've met and smoked with a few of these guys and I can tell you they're all class acts. If there's some elite's, then why wouldn't there be. They exist everywhere. But I've learned a lot here and I'll bet there's only a handful that even know who I am. Send me your snaily.

dwalt148 at optonline dot net

CWFoster
Friday, May 12, 2006 11:43:00 PM
Well, Dewalt said what I did, and didn't get anywhere NEAR as wordy as my old self did! LOL
dwalt10048
Saturday, May 13, 2006 12:21:00 AM
CW

please send me a snaily to the e-addy above too.

CWFoster
Saturday, May 13, 2006 12:30:00 AM
only if I get yours! LOL

clive(dot)foster(at)gmail(dot)com

youse other guys send me your too! LMAO!

andytv
Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:34:00 AM
Strange observation. The question that I have is this;

"When you send someone cigars, do you expect the gift to be reciprocated?"

In my case, the answer is "no", although I DO keep a "list" and eventually get even.

CWFoster
Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:43:00 AM
If you do a "blind trade" with someone, or someone asks if you will send them a sample of something you've mentioned having, and offers to send something back, then yes, i expect something in return, but like i said, sometimes what someone thinks is an equitable trade isn't something you think highly of at all, so i just bomb people and don't expect anything, I'm happier that way, and if I get something back... BONUS! I am horribly behind in my bombing for the past couple of years though! I have some LOOOOONG outstanding debts to repay! I just got my gars back a few weeks ago, and I'm working on finding a place for everything in our new home, but I SHALL RETURN!
bloody spaniard
Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:49:00 AM
Well- said, Andy.

Whatever you said.

Moonman, I think that you're feeling a little left out.

EVERYONE has felt that way at one point.

Just jump into the fray- trade, gift, and pontificate.

Eventually you will meet a FOG who will take you under his wing & share the secret handshake with you.

rugrunner
Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:53:00 AM
Shut up moon and send me more cigars.

Well.....I'm waiting...

CWFoster
Saturday, May 13, 2006 4:54:00 AM
Bloody, don't forget the decoder ring *****ooops, did I type that out loud?********
rugrunner
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:01:00 AM
CW, re#4. Don't feel bad, I don't like them either. I have tried dozens and not one has really wowed me (not to say they weren't good). And some i have down right disliked. I also don't like caviar or fancy coffee.
bloody spaniard
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:07:00 AM
Wait 'til I get may hands on you, CW, you boob! LOL!

Ruggy, you don't like a lot of things, do you?

Tell me that you at least like wearing a mackerel under your garter.

Everybody likes that.

rugrunner
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:21:00 AM
Bloody, shut up and send me cigars. You missed your tribute payment last month and we changed the handshake on you.

That's not a mackerel, it's a cod.

andytv
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:24:00 AM
blowfish
pgje51
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:47:00 AM

Damn. Wisdom, humor and warm sentiment all rolled into this

top of the morning thread.

Life is good.

CWFoster
Saturday, May 13, 2006 5:52:00 AM
Morning? hell, it's 5 minutes to Mothers Day here!
pgje51
Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:00:00 AM

CW, where are you?