I like Windows 10.
Not sure what the hate's about, I have had 0 problems with it.
It didn't force me to upgrade though, I just did it.
Both at home and at work.
You can disable all the bs that is turned on by default, then what you're left with is pretty clean.
I always did this with every version of Windows I've used...
Go through all the services, startup options, privacy crap (most of it only relates to their applications... which I don't use).
Macs and Linux have their fair share of problems too.
If you guys are truly concerned about privacy and security, use a BSD flavor OS.
For my gaming box that I'm on now, all I use it for is games and browsing the internet (and I don't use IE or Edge or what ever the hell they're calling it these days).