Great story with a happy ending.

Burner02 wrote:

Capt. Mike - maybe, at some point, have your son take up a martial art. I started taking karate around 10 or 11 but it was always for self-defense. Always avoided confrontation so never had to use it but knew if push came to shove, I would never have to back down from anything either.

Palama wrote:

I had him in martial arts as a kid and it was more of a “fun” thing and was never taken seriously. We never had bully issues until recently so I bought him boxing gloves and taught him how to properly punch. He finally used it =d>

Smurf875 wrote:

Sometimes too young is too soon.

For my experience, ten or 11 was just about right. Could understand the philosophy of the art and the control I needed to use. My dojo and instructors were old school (...think Mr. Miyagi...) except for a couple of them but they worked us HARD! I'm sure I would have quit if I were younger. Still, love the fact that your son didn't back down and used Dad's teachings!

Palama wrote:

I agree with the martial arts training at around 10-12 years of age. Our son had anger issues when he was younger. Had him attend a dojo for a few years. Great experience. Taught him lots of self control as well as respect for family and parents.

Standing up for one's self is a good life lesson. Better to learn early and teach the bullies early too.

madspackler wrote:

I've punched a bunch of kids in the face... 😟

DrafterX wrote: