My wife has never said a word about my cigars or my fishing gear purchases. She doesn't even ask what they cost.
The bag she wanted was out of stock, only available in Hawaii, and not online. She had another in mind, but didn't want me to spend that much. I asked the guy how much it was, recovered from the shock... then told her it counts for our anniversary next month too.
So I got that going for me... which is nice.
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