O.K. so now I know the basics of the trade biz. So, If I was so inclined, how would I get someones address in order to send something? I mean if there is a way other than by asking... I mean that would ruin the suprise, right?

Basically there is no way to get that information without asking. C-bid doesn't post private information, thank God. You must ask. Once you have traded with someone you will have their address. Put it in your address book, and bomb at will.
Later
Homebrew

Thanks HomeBrew.

You could keep an eye out on the trade board to see when that person trades with someone else. Then just ask the person they traded with for their address. Or keep an eye on who is doing a lot of trading and ask them. Maybe they might know.

Stalking has always worked for me.

watching the boards and posting will help you with your establishment. Place out feelers such as "what are your opinions on X brands and what are your fav's". Also if/when you decide to venture into a trade,remember not to ask for the moon and try to trade quality for quality. i.e. dont ask for PAMS when you only have LoneWolfs. Also since you are new, if/when you do get your first trade,send your end first. USPS Priority with Delivery Confirmation. hope this helps.
Coach