Guys, I'm not saying that daddy-o is innocent. It's just inconsistent. True, he let a whacko have her 5th kid. But turn the table here. If mom witnessed dad beat the kids every time he got drunk, then one day he up and choked them all to death, would America blame the woman? Sexism. Discrimination agains men. It's scary because it's getting more common, and the courts are upholding it.