Then ACT like it!
You want this sitting President to not include the most horrific act on US soil since Pearl Harbor? I say after seeing the ad, that it's a tastefully done political ad. It shows where we've been as a nation and where we're going. Not backbiting, and name-calling, and taxing the rich ploys to rile the anger, but LEADERSHIP IN THE FACE OF EXTREME CIRCUMSTANCES.
Put that in your memory. Remember we had this conversation when you hold your babies for the first time. Will they be safer with whom you vote for? Would anything be accomplished? Use your memory, not your anger! Howard Dean showed all of America just how far anger will take somebody.