180. I thought you brought up a good point in the other post, Gene, and that is why I responded:)
And of course you make a good point about abstinence, but do you really think the majority of unmarried adults (and teens for that matter) are practicing abstinence? I wish I could say that more of us did/do
It's an ideal I hope we swerve back to, but it isn't reality. And in the meantime, children are being fathered.
From youth we are taught, some at home and by popular culture, that as long as you use birth control [and for some of us, are in a committed relationship] that sex is part of the deal...
Will I teach my children differently? Yes, and I hope successfully. Are most American young men and boys given the example of honor, respect for women's virtue even when she doesn't believe in the concept, and encouraged to practice abstinence rather than glorify lust or passion? To the same degree that girls/women's "virtue" is encouraged to be preserved? I don't think so. And most will not live that way in adult relationships. Few men or women are virgins when they get married anymore. It's just a reality that won't change by way of "should". Deeper conversations and love for those who don't get to have those conversations with role models will do more imho